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【現実】経験人数が多い人と少ない人ならどっちを選ぶ？

【現実】経験人数が多い人と少ない人ならどっちを選ぶ？

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1組目 テキサス、カナダ出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Thank you very much for your help girls

Where are you from?

Texas

I’m from Ottawa Canada

What do you do?

I’m in the accounting industry

Me too

Sound very smart hey

Alright in this video I wanna ask you guys about

Like what kind of man want as a partner

Do you have a partner by the way

It’s complicated

I’m not gonna ask too much

I do yeah

How do American people usually find a person in the first place to hang out?

Do you use matching apps or do you go to loke bars and stuff and talk to people?

A lot of people find each other through university and classes

Or like bars

Or like bars? You talk to people?

How about matching apps?

I’m not too sure

I don’t know if it’s that popular

How about Canada?

I feel like same yeah

Just like bars or though university or though friends

I think like matching apps are popular in North America but

Neither of us use them so

It’s interesting coz

Like I said I’m Japanese and in Japan

It’s alright to talk to people on the street or in bars

“Hey girls. What are you up to?” Blah blah blah

“Can we drink together?” Or whatever

But it’s called a bit “Charai”

So Charai means a bit cheesy like you know what I mean?

Isn’t it taken like that or is it a totally fine thing?

It depends on the person

It depends on the person and depends on how you approach the person, init?

I was about to say

It’s how you approach and how you carry yourself

If you sound a bit shitty, it’s not gonna be taken well

Think about maybe like the first date or the second sate

Would you be okay with a guy who tries to split the bill or

Do you want a guy who pays everything on the first date?

I don’t think it matters

I don’t think finance is like the first thing that you look at in like

How they are holding themselves like

As long as they are respectful

As long as they are respectful and that’s the most important thing

What about you?

Yeah the same thing

In either young age there’s not many expectations

But maybe when I’m older

Of course you want maybe someone who will shout more and cover you more

But maybe that’s an old school opinion

I guess it’s just like a nice gesture and like

I know even if someone offers like

My partner will always offer and like

I’ll always offer

I’m sure he pays like a lot more than I do but like

I think it’s just a nice gesture like from both parties like a girl or a guy

Just like you are doing something nice for someone and like

It’s a nice experience to go for a dinner or a date whatever so

Main question of this interview

I don’t think there are many girls who prefer a guy

Who slept with a hundred girls

However at the same time I assume that there are some girls

Prefer a man who had some experiences at least

If there were only two men in the world

Which one would you go for?

A man who has experienced with maybe like a hundred chicks

Or a man who has no experience at all

I mean it really depends on like the reason like

Why they have no experience like

I think if it’s just their values or if they are waiting till marriage like

Then a hundred percent that person

Like the only like red flag is maybe like

What if they are really toxic or something and like Just nobody wants him but

Yeah I feel like personally it’s not really like about how many people you slept with

But it’s just like a value thing

So someone’s like slept around bunch like That’s totally fine

That just personally doesn’t really line with my value so

I wouldn’t see that as like potential for like a partner or like a relationship

But yeah definitely depends like why they haven’t slept I guess but

It’s definitely not like red flag or anything

Especially if it’s like around their values

How about you?

Yeah I agree and like

If let’s say you meet someone and you had a few dates and

Start dating and then you get to the conversation

Then you can write them off

Like they could have gone through s**t phase

Alright interesting

Thank you for your honest opinion

2組目 シドニー出身の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

From here from Sydney

What are you doing here on a bench?

It’s Australian Day so

Just waiting for some friends I’m gonna meet up with him a little bit

Just enjoy the good weather and enjoy each others company

Nice

What do you usually do?

I work in recruitments and just in the city over here but

Yeah just here at the beach today

I’ve heard recruitment is good money in Australia, init?

It can be

It’s up to you, is it?

If you are good at it, it can be good money

Are you good salesman?

I hope so

Alright in this video I wanna ask you about like

What kind of girl you want in your life as a partner

Do you have a partner by the way?

Currently no

How do you usually meet someone?

I think in today’s age as well it’s lot of online dating as well so

Do you do that?

Yeah, I dived in as well

Yeah, you swipe right and left?

Yeah, all types have been so

But like sometimes you meet people out in bars as well

But I think as the moment especially like in when it is covid and everything

Very heavily dating app focus I would say

It’s hot now, isn’t it?

Yeah exactly

You know sometimes you go to a date and

Girls expect boys to pay everything

Even shopping and obviously the food coffee, drinks and everything

What do you think about this?

Dose it happen to you?

It can and has

I would say that probably isn’t the girl for me then

I think like initially in a first couple of dates it’s like quite chivalrous to offer to pay and that sort of stuff

You wanna make a good impression, right? But

I would say long term

You wanna have a partner who also contribute to the relationship

Doesn’t just rely in you for everything as well

That’s a big respect as well, isn’t it?

A hundred percent

I think that’s pretty consistent across sort of Australian culture as well, right?

Yeah I found it

If it was a girl who just sort of want one of my credit card

Yeah it wouldn’t be for me

Okay I need a tip

Sometimes I feel like I’m a bit of chicken you know

I don’t have a gut to say

“Can we split bill?”

Do you say something like that or?

What do you do?

To be honest I feel like most girls that I have been to dates with

They have always offered

If not the first date but second or third sate

They are always like “Should we go halfies on this”

“Should we go dutch on it?” Or something like that

Australian girls are really good at that yeah

It’s a respect thing as well from both parties and both sides as well

So thankfully

I haven’t been in the situation where I sort of have to ask so

What about this?

Okay you gone for a couple of dates with a girl

You kind of start liking her

Sometimes you have a bit deeper conversation

And then if girls says

” I kinda had fun because I was single for a long time”

“Probably my bodycount is like fifty or a hundred”

And then you are like

“Wow fifty or a hundred?” It’s not a small number

What do you think about this? Do you judge at this point?

Or is it okay as long as she’s like a nice person or something?

I’d say for myself personally

If it was a long term relationship

That will probably be a deal breaker for myself

If it’s a long termrelationship I think so

It doesn’t mean that she’s gonna cheat on you though

It’s not guaranteed but yeah I know what you mean

I think in a way I feel that’ll probably

Reflect on your values to a certain extent as well

So I think that would probably not match with my values and

Things I’m looking for in a relationship

If it’s a shorter tern thing, who knows

But if I was looking for a long term committed relationship I think that would probably be a bit of red flag for me

Last question

If there were only two women in the world

One like I said has experienced with a hundred guys

And the other has no experience at all

Which one would you go for?

The latter

Why is that?

I think like I said it should go back to my own values and

What I’ll probably be looking for in a long term partner as well

And I think I rather that than

Probably someone who’s been across half of Sydney so

For lack of better term but yeah I think so

Mate, you are really good at talking You helped me out so much

Thank you mate

3組目 アルゼンチン、ペルー出身の3人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Argentina

Argentina as well

Peru

What do you do for job?

I don’t work

The same

I work in a warehouse

Okay, you are a human being

These people are millionaires

Today in this video I wanna ask you guys like What kind of person you want as a partner in your life

How do you usually find someone to hangout with in your country?

Do you talk to someone in bars?

In a bar

I don’t like the apps or anything

Face to face

So you are a woman

In Asian countries usually people expect always boys talk to girls

Do you talk to men sometimes?

Same but if you look someone like you know

Eye contact yeah?

So you give a laser beam sometimes?

It works

How about you?

Yeah, pretty much the apps definitely a hundred percent

What do you use?

Grinder

Grinder for like

Gay people, lesbian people is that correct?

I use in Argentina as well

That’d be the first choice hundred percent

Sounds like you having a fun, hey?

A lot

How about in your country?

Face to face

I never used any apps in my country

Do you talk to men from you?

Yes

If you see like good looking people, you talk?

It’s not that often

But if I really like someone yes, I can do it

I wanna have that experience

It never happened to me SAD! Anyway

This is the last question of this interview

If there were only two men in the world

One has experienced with a hundred girls

And the other has no experience at all

A hundred girls

Who is our age

Which one would you go for?

A hundred girls

Two thousand

Two thousand..

Why do you think so?

More experience is the better!

I don’t wannabe the teacher

A hundred percent! You don’t wannabe the teacher

I agree with you

Alright interesting

Thank you very much guys

4組目 メルボルン、テキサス出身の２人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Melbourne

I just came back from Melbourne actually

I was filming there too

What about you?

I’m from Texas

Texas the US

Do you have a partner by the way?

No

Boy friend application is open?

Yeah

Let’s think about the situation like first date or second date

Would you be okay with a guy who tries to split the bill? Or

Do you prefer a guy who pays everything on the first date?

I think splitting is fine

I feel like first date you should pay with in like

You expect men to pay on the first date

I guess in opinion it depends like whose idea the date was

Planner

So if it was like his idea then like

He could pay probably most of it

If it was like both of ours, we could split

And then if it was my idea, I pay but

It really depends

I’ll give you the main question of this interview

I don’t think many girls want a guy

Who slept with lots of girls

However at the same time

I assume that some girls prefer a man

Who has some experiences at least so

If there were only two men in the world

Which one would you go for?

Our age or maybe like twenty five or something like that

Would you go for a man who spelt with lots of girls or

Would you go for a man who has no experience at all?

Probably no experience

Really?

Yeah

Why is that?

Because I don’t know like

I don’t want a boyfriend who’s like slept around with heaps of girls like

I’d just be awkward

It’s just not comfortable, is it?

Yeah like

Imagine just going out and being like “Oh yeah”

“He slept with her or…”

Just weird

That girl! That girl! That’s not good

How about you?

I’d probably have to say the same just like

No experience

We can learn together

Love it!

Thank you for your answer girls

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