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結婚前にアレしたら人生が終了するインドネシアの話

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I remember that you told me that

Sometimes you feel Japanese guys a bit too much

I think it’s because we see some media Japanese media you know

They talk about the comedians talk about kind of like stuff as a joke sometimes

How about in your country

Do you see something kind of like ●● on TV in Indonesia or not really

Before we have

Before you have

Yeah but it’s 2 a.m

Not much people with real watching

Only adult people watching

So you said before but now you don’t have it

No I don’t think so

But it’s like knowledge

Not a it’s not crazy thing It’s kind of like educational things

Okay but now it’s kind of like a prohibited

Is it a kind of like strict or

I think to talk ●● stuff in Indonesia it’s kind of like taboo

So i’ll say so I’ll ask you what about like teenagers

You know in Japan high school student or even a junior high school student we kind of like some people kind of like start dating with a boyfriend girlfriend and you know

Once that happens You know the things can happen sometimes or

At least you start talking about kind of like ●● stuff with your friend

Even like girls and girls

Did you guys do that in your teenage your time?

When I was in my junior high

It was the first time we talked about ●● in at school

Junior high school how old were you?

So like 13 or something okay 10 years 14 or 15

But actually when we talk about ●● it at school

I don’t have idea at all about it

But I think like it’s not only in Japan

Like in Indonesia a lot of teenagers

They start being a girlfriend and boyfriend

Around the same time

But do you think it’s not really good to have like you know body to body

When you’re like junior high school or junior high school is very young

But high school student

The parents are not going gonna be happy about it?

In Indonesia talking about ●● like this

It’s not really open like

Not everyone wants to talk about this openly

I know that you have a lot of Japanese friends right?

And then I’m pretty sure that

Some people talk about this kind of topic with you

Are you like why are you surprised at the beginning?

No because I’m a person that kind opened

You are okay about that

So iI’m okay I’m happy to share everything with my friends like

I want to know more and I want to share more with them with everyone

For me it’s okay

But like mostly Indonesian they didn’t talk about this much

It’s a bit too much

And I think when I share ●● like stuff with Japanese

It’s kind of so free to tell everything with them

I like to share with them

Because they are really open they tell me everything

Also you were kind of well

Like I don’t have to hesitate or anything

Because they are also share with me

So I don’t have any hesitate to share with them before sure

You know here in Australia

You see couples kissing each other on the street or in a restaurant

That happens sometimes in Japan but not as much as Australia

How about Indonesia are these things accepted or no

Not many people do that

I think it’s like minority

But when we went to Singapore we can see everyone do that

Can Singapore is a very multicultural country

Like Australia isn’t it?

Singapore is really close from our country but

It’s big different

Very different?

The culture

So what about Japanese people you know many Japanese people go to Bari for holiday

Some people go there with a couple

Do we have to be careful about it or

I don’t think so

I think like tourists they don’t care about our culture I think so

Oh so you see tourist and do things but you don’t really care

Yeah and we understand

They are tourist so we don’t care

I think it’s kind of like a tattoo in Japan

In Japan if you have a like a Japanese tattoo

If Japanese people have it

Some people get oh this guy might be uh you know a little bit not really good

But if you have a tattoo

I can see you’re not Japanese

But people are not gonna care because they know that’s you are tourist

You’re not Japanese

Maybe it’s similar to that

I heard that nowadays in Bali

To book a hotel room with a couple

You kind of have to have a marriage certificate

To show that you’re married you guys are married Is that true?

I heard about this before but I think it’s not true

Because when I went to bali with my ex-boyfriend

It’s okay no problem They didn’t ask us about anything

Like marriage status or anything

But I’m not too sure I mean like now

I think why Bali has a rule like they need to check on marriage status because

In Indonesia

●● before marriage is not allowed it’s because

It’s not allowed

It’s not allowed

It’s because our religion majority in our country

They don’t accept this

Yeah they don’t accept this soul

The culture following them like

Because they are the majority

Something like that

●● before marriage is like a sense or something like that

Okay you’re single right? You’re not marriage

So is it like

If you do it before you get married

Dose it make your situation harder to marry to someone

Or like is it kind of like an end of your life

It’s not end of my life

And it’s not gonna affect all aspects in your life

But when you have religion

Because religion is really important in our country

So if you have religion

If you have ●● before marriage

Our religion told us that it’s gonna be affect in our marriage life I mean in the future

So that’s why some people don’t wanna do it

Don’t wanna risk their marriage life in the future

But not everyone

Not everyone care about

It’s just for everyone that’s really strong in their religion something like that

So for example if they know you do you did it something like this and

They’re not gonna be happy

They’re not gonna talk about this or

They’re not gonna talk about it

But if I do ●● for marriage I’m not gonna tell my friend like hey

So I think that’s I think that’s the difference you know

We talk about it to our friends

Because yeah kind of open

But you kind of like have to hide in yourself

And I think it’s only for female friends

I think guy friends they’re more open to all

The guys okay

But you know I think the rule or the thought

Has been there for a long time since long time ago

You know nowadays in many countries younger generation people are changing

Do you think these things are changing too?

Yeah

Like before the ●● things is so taboo

But I think they start to open

Open-minded

Changing a little by little

So now in Indonesia we can see in the restaurant or a public places we can see

A couple kissing each other

Also it’s changeing

You think less people care

Younger generation don’t care right?

Yeah

Maybe some old people

Old people

They do care

It’s very small thing but I heard

On TV in Indonesia

You guys hide see c scene? Is that true?

Like what?

They scene or everything

Even like a little bit oppai they’re gonna censor

Crazy

Just like a bikini

In the bikini like totally they’re gonna censor everything

Bikini?

I mean like even if you’re you have a top and a little bit open

Like just a little bit oppai here

You’re gonna censor like blur

Too much

I think that sort of media or that sort of education

Makes the thought

I think the government trying to hide the sexual stuff to the young generaltion

To aboid

●● or crimes?

Yeah something like this

It’s a good thing but I think it’s too much

A little bit oppai a little bit open again

I’m gonna be censored whole body

Yeah

Cigarettes

Smoking cigarettes as well?

They’re gonna blurry

But I don’t I think it’s not only in Indonesia

They’re gonna hide if something’s bad they’re gonna hide everything

They’re just trying to save our young generation

Well that’s very interesting to hear

Because I never knew Indonesia people back in Japan

Since I came to Australia five years ago

You know there are many Indonesian people in the world

And you know sometimes because of our cultural differences

I don’t wanna be rude

But things I’m doing like naturally or normally because of my culture

Sometimes can kind of like hurt or

Upset people you know what I mean

So I think it’s really good to know

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