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1組目　イタリア出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m Italian

How do you do it?

Like this

Just need to do this

Yeah ok

This is a very sudden question

Do you have a partner now?

No, not right now I’m single

Today I’ve been making a video, interview video about

Cheating

I’ve been asking if people have an experience of cheating

Or have been cheated on

Straight to the point

Have you ever cheated on your partner or exes?

I’ve never cheated on anyone

Have you been cheated?

Unfortunately yes It happened

Sorry to ask you, but I want to know what happened?

How did you find out?

I actually kind of felt it at one point

I was in a relationship with this guy

And then at one point he decided to break up with me

I didn’t realize why

I have wondered and I found out

That he was getting a ticket he had already bought a ticket to go outside of Italy

Just to see the new girl

So, I found out that he was cheating on me

Oh my god

Did you talk about it with the gut after you found out?

He tried to, but I blocked him everywhere

I didn’t want any explanation

Okay, so you were like done, finish is finished

Apparently in Japan, 30% people said

They have cheated on their partner

That’s quite a big number, I think

But what do you think about in Italy?

Many cheating happen inside Italy?

Do you think it is less than 30%?

I think it happens even more than 30%

Unfortunately, yes

I talk to people so, when I look at them

When I listen to them, I know they are cheating

I don’t know what but I think the only things I could say is that

It’s not up to the person who gets cheated on

It’s up to the person who decides to cheat

So, it’s not your fault

It’s not your problem it’s their problem

Sometimes in a relationship we don’t feel or we don’t have a satisfaction

But when that happened, I think you need to have a talk

Or have a conversation and solve the problem

Rather than just secretly like go cheating definitely

Exactly

COmmunication is the key for every relationship I think 100%

You need to talk!

You need to talk or you need to give them to talk for your partner

Some people say if you secretly text someone that’s cheating

If you kiss somebody, that’s obviously cheating

What do you think is cheating for you?

From what sort of behavior, will you call cheating?

For me, it’s even if you are talking to another person

I’m a girl, so if I’m in a relationship with a guy

And I see my boyfriend having a conversation with someone

Let’s say like hidden conversation, I’m talking about like

DMs on Instagram, WhatsApp and stuff

If I find out something like this, for me its cheating

Of course, there are more obvious stuff

Which is like finding your partner in bed with somebody else

But he’s still cheating

Having seen someone that is talking to another person

Seeing your partner talking with another person

So even a texting, if you partner tried to hide it from you

That’s like, no, no sign Red flag I think

It is a big red flag what I would do

Maybe even if I get angry I would try to explain

I would try to get an explanation

If I don’t get an explanation, I usually see the person

When they try to hide it, so I get really nervous about it

So that’s for me, it’s a big red flag

And I will leave and not coming back never

I need to ask you as a person who have experienced being cheated

What do you think is the one that you might be able

To forgive your partner for cheating on you from these from?

For example, No1

You simply deeply love your boyfriend

No.2

You know your partner is going to be fantastic when he has got a kid so ideal parent

No.3

Apart from the loyalty everything else, he’s amazing

Perfect really gentle, really kind, nice, everything

No.4

He’s super successful and rich

Can you forgive your partner cheating on you if any of these apply?

I think none of them And I’ll tell you why

The first one, you say, if ou’re really in love with a partner

Love in not enough

You need to have also commitment

And commitment is every day And I learned that

Exactly

Second thing is a really good father, you say?

If you’re going to have kids

Well, what an example you’re giving to your kid if you cheat on the mother

So I don’t know

That’s true

Third one, you say…

He is perfect apart from the loyalty

Okay

Loyalty is the biggest thing

I think, in our relationship. So it’s out of discussion

Yeah, everyone says that

Exactly

And then fourth one, rich

Successful and rich

I don’t care, to be honest with me, you can be even the richest person in the world

But if you’re not loyal, I’m going to leave

You need to be with someone who you can trust and who makes you happy

Even you have money it doesn’t matter

Exactly

Money doesn’t hide your disrespectful

Ok, so the simple last question

Do you think you can confidently say that you will never cheat on your partner in your life?

I’m pretty confident to say that

Because I know myself really well

And I know that when I am committed to someone I am committed to that person

It has happened in the past

When I was not happy with my partner

Instead of chating on him I left him so I broke up with him

I think that is what everyone should do

So, if you are not happy

Just leave instead of cheating because it is very disrespectful

That is so true

Many people in situations when it is hard to enjoy their relationship

They secretly cheat on the partner

But rather than that you just talk or leave

That’s it

Thank you very much

You’re welcome

Grazie

You said it really well

2組目　メルボルン出身の2人組の女性に聞いてみた！

Were are you from?

From Melbourne, Australia

This is Bondi Beach in Sydney

What are you up to today?

Just came for a holiday

We are just here for the day really

So, have you been enjoying so far?

Yeah, it’s been so good

We had a helicopter ride this morning

Really?

You guys are rich

I wish

Do you have a partner now?

No, I do not

No, I don’t either

Enjoying a helicopter ride and looking for a good-looking man

Exactly right!

So, I have been making an interview video about cheating today

You know I have been asking if people have an experience of cheating

Or have been cheated on

Let me ask you some questions

Straight to the main point

Have you ever cheated on your partner or exes?

No

I’ve never chated But I have been cheated on

OMG

By your ex or..?

By my ex-partner.

We were together for about a year and a half

And I found it out through his brother

What do you mean by that?

His brother told you?

So, his brother though I knew, and he told me

So, he was like “it happened at schoolies”

In like a normal conversation

Then my face just dropped

He was like “You knew right?”

Does this look like the face that knew?

OMG

I mean, I feel sorry

But at the same time have to appreciate you

Because the video is going to be good

Oh man that is un-real

So, after that did you talk to your ex about it and you finished it?

Well, I confronted him about it, ane then he denied it

And then I was like I found out through your brother

And then he was like

And I was like, “so?” then it was like

He was not supposed to say anything

That is how it went down

OMG

That is craziest thing I ever heard related to cheating

Apparently, in Japan, 3 in 10 people have said that they have cheated in their life

I don’t know it is a big number or a small number

What do you think about Australia?

Do you think more people cheat here or less?

What about your friends?

I probably would say more I reckon more

You hear about it a lot more like

I have been cheated as well and she has

Most of the people I know has been

You have been cheated too?

Yeah, not as dramatic as hers though

It doesn’t need to be dramatic you know?

But you have(been cheated)?

Yeah, so me and my ex was at the time

Dating and together for two and a bit years

I saw that he talking to another girl calling and everything

Then I spoke to her and she was like

We have been talking for months

What do you mean?

I was like, well, I’m actually his girlfriend

And she goes I didn’t know

What the F

Yeah, the I stayed with him for a little while longer but I don’t know why

Did you find it out through hus phone?

Yes, so he was asleep at my home and

I went to message his dad to pick him up

That is before we had out licenses

Then I was like son’t know that name

I didn’t mean to click on it

But obviously I did want to click on it

And then there was like love hearts and babe

This and that in the chat, and yeah

This is a bit awkward

Did you finished it there?

No…

No, she didn’t

OMG You are so nice

I thought to try forgive him, work on it

And then year later we broke up

Ok, then it did not work out, anyway

Two more questions

Even people sometimes cheat

You may have some reasons to be able to forgive that person

I’ll give you 4 situations

And please tell me if any of them you will be able to forgive your partner

For cheating on you or not

The first one is

You simply deeply love your partner

The second one is

You definitely know that your partner

Is going to be fantastic if he has a kid fantastic as a parent

The third one is going to be

He is absolutely the best of the best apart from loyalty

But he is a imcest person, so kind and gentle

Apart from the loyalty

The last one

He is super successful and super rich

I don’t know I don’t think I can excuse it at all

Because if you want to be with me, be with me

Even you are good with kids

Then you can have kids with someone you cheated me with

If you are going to be with me, you are with me

I want to build my relationship in my life with someone

100% I agree with you

What do you think?

I personally wouldn’t be able to forgive them at all

I just think relationships aren’t hard

It is just about loyalty and being there for someone

So, if they can’t provide in that way

Nothing else matters

If they can’t provide the loyalty

And whatever he has there is no chance

It means nothing

Ok, so the last question

I think I can see the answer

But , can you confidently say that you would never cheat on your partner in your life?

Nah, never will

100% I couldn’t

I like your solid answer

Thank you for your interesting answers

3組目　アリゾナ出身の2人組の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you guys from?

Arizona, the United States

Both of you?

Yeah, this is my son

Your son? Ok!

OMG

It is going to be a little tricky to interview this topic

No, no

It will be comfortable you can go right ahead

Alright are you married?

Yes

Do you have a partner now?

No, I’m single still

Alright, in this video

I’ve been interviewing people about their experience of cheating

If people have ever cheated on their partner

Or if people have been cheated by their partner

In your life, have you ever been cheated on your exes?

So, me no personally

My wife and I have been together since high school

So, she was 14 and I was 16

So, we have been together ever since

My parents are the same

They are still together and they have been together nearly 50 years

So everyone around in my family

Have been very solid, never any cheating

So, it is kind of unique

But I think it is tied to family values

Family values, yeah

So, if you have a good example with in the family

You are able to follow those examples then

You may not realize why you follow those examples

But it does land you to good habits and

And not getting yourself in trouble with those types of things

So, many generations of families staying together

And no cheating

So, maybe it’s an oddity but

But you need to have a good example in front of you and that is really important

If your parents are great and if you learn from that

It’s education

You see happy families and happy couples

And they could live you 60 years 70 years together and it is definitely possible

100% Youate lucky mate

Pretty lucky

I’ve experienced the same thing

No cheating and got great examples from my parents and grandparents

Are you sure? You are noy just saying that, yeah?

No just saying that

Never chated and never have been chated on

I have great examples to go by so I’m just living life good

That’s good

So, I do have an extended story to this example however

So, the reason why we are here is

My mother-in-law her father was here in the 40’s

And we found out through DNA testing that

He indeed cheated on his wife

So we are here because my mother-in-law

Has a half-brother that we are going to visit that we’ve never met before

And so that is why we are here on holidays

It’s to visit him in Ballina

Oh, really That is a special situation

You know, just to add a little in-depth example

You know we see it around but we live in a good example and live in a happy life

Yeah, yeah Ok

What do you think?

In Japan, apparently more than 30% people say they have cheated in my life

I think it’s quite a big number

What do you think about in the US

Do many people cheat there?

I would say so

I don’t have a number or statistics

But from just friends and experiences

There is definitely a bit scandalous and cheatings

There is plenty of divorce and things

But you know I guess when you see a bad example

That is the other path you don’t want to go down and follow the same example

Because, once you end up having divorce

They have to try remake and try to right the wrongs in one way or another

So, you have two different example abd you can follow which one you want

I have seen the happy life for a long time

So it is a good way to stay

Plus, he is one of seven I have seven kids

Seven?

Yes, he is the oldest of the seven

You have so much power!

How old are you?

Me? I’m 48

You have a super cool dad

Super good looking sunnies and

Good muscles and sick tattoos and all that

He is a great guy I love him

He is a good example for my life

We hang out together

Now he is old enough, we have beer together and

It’s great

So you can confidently say you will never cheat in your life

No doubt

That is not your culture

No, no Not part of my makeup

ok, interesting

Thank you very much

Please enjoy your day

Will do thank you

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