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Have you ever done this kind of interview before?

No never

Never?

First Time on YouTube?

First Time on YouTube yea

What country are you from?

I’m from UK

England?

England yea

Today is… Tuesday

What do you do for work?

I’m a physiotherapist

Is it similar to chiropractics?

We don’t do so much like cracking and stuff

Today I’m giving people questions about dating apps

First of all I wanna ask you

Have you ever used dating apps or

Do you use dating apps?

Yes, I do use dating apps

So you currently use dating apps?

Yea

What dating apps do you use?

Probably more HInge

Sometimes Tinder but

Hinge is definitely more popular one

What’s the difference between HInge and Tinder?

Tinder is big in Japan too but Hinge is

I don’t think Hinge is there but

What’s the difference?

I think Hinge just allows you to have more options

So you can kind of almost categorize, what you want out of someone before you search

You think it’s a bit more serious version of Tinder?

Kind of

So we wanna get some advice from you

I don’t think there is any specific answer related to this question but

I’m asking you about profile pictures on dating apps

You know some guys upload their facial picture

Some guys show their bod

What sort of picture is more comfortable to see on dating apps for you?

Probably just either like with their friends or

Nice picture in an event or something like that

I’m not so much huge fan of the gym selfies

That’s kind of the most off-putting one

Why do you think so?

It’s just very egotistical I think

When you first see it, it’s like okay we all know you go to the gym

You have biceps… you know

It’s not necessary yeah?

You could say that

You’ve probably heard this too

Some people say

Matching apps are pretty much for hooking up

Can you sometimes tell the guys on dating apps

Who just looking for hook up

Do you have any tip to identify this kind of people?

Not sound too broad to generaliaze but

Sometimes it is the gym selfie guys to be more of those

Coz they are more going for kind of the first physical looks

Which you can tell it’s probably more just a hook up than anything more serious

I see

Do you have any funny or terrible story from your experience in dating apps?

I wouldn’t say anything too crazy

I suppose sometimes you have Tinder dates that go

Little bit wrong, not fun

So it’s always good to have a

Safeword to message your friends

You message the safe word and

They call you “I need you to come back straightaway”

And then you can just go

That’s actually good to know

Apparently in Japan many people

Kind of like try to hide the fact that they are using dating apps

From their parents

Do you talk about this with your parents?

Not openly

But I guess if I met someone more serious on an dating app

I probably just say we met through HInge or whatever

I’d tell my mum as well

I think I did

Last question

Simply what do you use matching apps for?

Ahhhm

To find someone who has similar interests to me

Someone I get along with easily

Who wants to do the same things that I do

And then see where it goes

So you are totally fine to find your boyfriend or

Future husband on dating apps?

Yes of course

It’s the modern world

Thank you very much for your help

2組目 スペインのバルセロナ出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Thank you very much for your help

You’re welcome

Have you ever done this kind of interview before?

No

First time?

Can I ask you where you’re from?

I’m from Spain

From Barcelona?

Soccer?

Soccer? Ah yeah football

You like it?

No, I don’t like it

Is that okay to ask your age?

I’m 25

What do you do for work?

Now here in Bondi Beach I’m doing house keeping

And I work in a restaurant as well

So you keep yourself very busy hey?

Yes

Today I’m giving people questions about dating apps

First of all I wanna ask you, have you ever used dating apps before or

Do you use dating apps now?

Not now but I used to use

Is that okay to ask you what dating apps you used bofore?

Tinder

Is Tinder big in Europe too?

Yeah I think everybody uses it in Spain

It’s big in Spain yea?

I think so

I don’t think there is a specific answer to this question

But you know when you open Tinder and see guys photos

There’s many kinds of photos guys upload on their profile

What you what sort of pictures are more comfortable to see in dating apps?

So for me

If they don’t have a T-shirt on, it’s a red flag

Really?

Please wear T-shirt

It’s interesting

So I don’t know…I don’t like it

I think they are like a little bit…

Looking for a…?

Yeah and selfish and you know when you

You believe that you are too much [confident]

Showing their muscle

I don’t like that kind of guys for sure

Especially many people say Tinder is just for hooking up

You know some people say that

In your experience

Do you see any sign of caution?

Maybe you said no T-shirt is kinds like a red flag

Do you have anything else?

Any sign you see maybe it’s not good

Maybe if they write you like, if they wanna go on date so fast

They’re just looking for s** so maybe it’s not my..

I don’t want that

But [also] when you talk to him

He has no interest about you

He’s just talking about himself

It’s also something I don’t like it

Do you get many people like that?

Yeah…

Really?

When you used to use matching apps

Do you used to get message like straightaway

“Hey, let’s go out” like

Not even talking about you and him?

Yeah sometimes

But I don’r answer to that kind of [messages]

You see they are just looking for this

Any funny or terrible momory from your experience?

Hmm……

I think yes

What happened? Tell me

It was in Spain

I dated with a guy and we’d been talking for maybe 2 weeks and then we had a date

In our date

He was talking about himself and

How much money he has

That kind of stuffs

It was a really cheap restaurant that

You pay for depending on what you eat

How do you say…

Of you choose and pay?

And then you have to bring the sticks to the cashier to pay

He counts and then you pay

So after talking for a long time about that he has a lot of money

He hid some of the sticks not to pay for all of them and I was like

Stingy as f**k

I was so embarrassed and I didn’t like it

I paid for it

You paid for it

That’s terrible

A lot of bad experiences

Sometimes you get this kind of person yeah

Last question

What did you use matching apps for?

In the beginning it was to find someone to do like stuff arounf and maybe we…

Stuff around like?

Like you can go for a beer

You can got o some day trips or

So just like a casual friend?

Yeah but them maybe could be somthing else, why not?

But it’s not like just to look for someone to have a relationship or to have s**

Maybe yes why not but it’s not like

Just that

That was a very interesting story

Thank you very much

You’re welcome

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