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【衝撃】あなたの初体験はいつ？｜外国人って本当にオープン!?

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1組目　メルボルン出身の女性に初体験について聞いてみた

Thank you very much for your help. Where are you guys from?

We are from Melbourne.

Oh you guys are from Melbourne?

Yeah, We just got here today.

Alright, enjoying the Sydney sun?

Yeah, It’s so good

So you guys are from Australia?

So my name is called Tarosac from Japan, I’m making an educational contents today in Bondi Beach, I don’t know how you guys think but you know in Asian countries.

People are a little bit more conservative about relationship and intimate relationship especially.

So I wanna ask you some questions about that, It’s nothing crazy but, As an an Australian girl.

How old were you when you had the first time?

The first time I was eighteen.

Oh , So okay eighteen.

I haven’t my first date time.

Okay that’s alright, So as an Australian person, Eighteen, is it pretty early or pretty late?

I think it’s like average.

I think seventeen to nineteen.

If you wouldn’t mind to answer to this question, It’s fine but was it was it with your partner at the time?

Yeah it was with my boyfriend.

Do you regret about it or are you okay with it?

Do I regret it?

No, I don’t regret it.

So I think eighteen is an okay age.

Yeah, I feel like you have to do it with someone like you trust.

Do you have any friends that are like did it it someone who they don’t really like regret about it?

Yeah, definitely

Yeah, Our friends regret.

does it tend to happen in like parties and stuffs?

I feel like party scenes, Peer pressure it just depends by the environment.

Yeah, What is peer pressure?

So like when there’s lots of people around it also doing it you feel like you should be doing it too.

Yeah, so when you are influenced by your friends , When your friends doing something so you feel like you should do it too, Peer pressure. Peer is like the people you hang out with.

Okay , We learned something good now, I’ve never heard of that term, So last question, We are all human.

I’m a human and you’re a human, We all have a moment when we feel like “Okay, I don’t mind to be a little intimate with this person” you know?

Girls and boys, It doesn’t matter but what do you think the biggest factor to make you like that? Is it appearance? Or like personality?

I think connection.

Yes, Personality with the person trust.

Yeah, trusting the person.

So obviously you know this person through somehow your friends or whatever and you go out on a date a few times and You feel like “This person is nice”

Yeah, They respect you.

They respect you?

Yes

Good to know, thank you very much girls.

2組目　フランスとドイツ出身の男女に初体験について聞いてみた

Where are you from?

My name is Kellen, I’m from Paris.

Paris France?

Exactly.

Where are you from?

I’m Sarah and I’m from Germany, Hamburg.

Sarah from Germany, Okay I’ve been to Germany long time ago like ten years ago, it’s very amazing country, I haven’t been to France yet, But I really wanna go, I wanna go to see a game of Paris Saint-Germain.

Yeah the best team ever.

You like them?

Of course.

Would you mind my asking how old you guys are?

Twenty nine.

Twenty nine as well.

So today I’m making an educational content about, Let’s say relationship.

You know, I don’t know about your image towards my country Japan, But you know Asian culture, Asian people, Asian society including Japan it’s a little bit conservative. Compare to European countries, that’s what I believe, I guess so.

So the question’s gonna be a little bit about intimate relationship, I hope you guys wouldn’t mind but I wanna ask you some questions. Nothing crazy right, I’ll give you the main straight away. How old were you when had the first time experience?

Um, seventeen.

Almost eighteen.

Do you think it’s pretty early in your country?

No, In my country it’s very late.

So in France how old do you think people tend to have like the first time around?

Um fifteen to sixteen.

Oh fifteen, sixteen that’s quite early. People are very open about that sort of thing?

Very open in France but you know France is a romantic country.

What is it?

in France is a Romantic country.

Romantic country, that’s true. how about Germany? Is Germany a romantic country?

Not really to be honest.

They are a bit more dry.

Not like French people.

Is it like this? You know I’ve spoken to Scandinavian people like Swedish people, Finnish people they say, Those countries are a little bit dry, like strangers are very strangers, like it’s not really close.

Whereas you see like Australian people are really close you know?

Like strangers are like friends, So it’s not like that in Germany?

No, like this is the difference we have in Australia like people greet to you, like people say hello to you, smile at you, Ask you how are you. In Germany you don’t really have that.

Like people, If you don’t know them, they not really interested in how you doing.

They don’t get about you.

Yeah kind of. People are more likely to connect with you here I would say.

Yeah okay I see. A little bit in Japan then I guess I would say, So how old were you when you had the first time?

Twenty two.

Twenty two, How about in Germany do you think? Is it early or late?

No, that’s pretty late.

What do you think the average age for the first time in Germany?

Sixteen, fifteen.

Oh, same as France.

According to research a survey at a Japanese big company of a some protection stuff, they say twenty years old is the Japanese average age, So I think it’s pretty late relatively to your country, right?

If you compare with Europe, maybe yes but twenty is a good age for me seriously, because at fifteen you don’t know anything so for me seriously fifteen is very early.

Did you regret about it?

No, eighteen is a good also.

Oh yeah you had it at eighteen.

Yeah exactly eighteen, twenty I think it’s a good age, It’s not too late because you know yourself, You know exactly what you want, what you like maybe you know.

So you’d give an advice to whom haven’t had an experience and you say they maybe should be able to think well before they have it, So they are not gonna regret.

I think so yeah, I think it’s better in this way.

Okay, Interesting, I’m gonna give you a last question, You know we are all human sometimes when we are with someone with the people, You feel like “Okay, I don’t mind to have an intimate relationship with this person”. What’s the biggest factor do you think, to make you feel like this? “Okay this guy is okay” “I go for him” or “I go for her”. What do you think is the biggest factor for this feeling?

I think it depends on your age, maybe when you are young I think the most thing is maybe the physical appearance and when you take more age, I think it’s more the personality.

Okay, So when you are younger you look at more like outside aspects.

Exactly.

How about you as a German lady?

I would say the connection.

The connection?

Yeah, The vibe between those two.But I think he’s not wrong like when you are younger the attraction is really important.

Like I don’t know, You don’t really pay attention to different stuffs but I think you grow older like after eighteen, nineteen, twenty, maybe mid-twenty you wanna feel connection, you wanna feel vibe.

It doesn’t mean that it’s love or something, Just to have like good vibe.

But after, of course the physical appearance is still important.

All right, We heard something really nice from these people, Thank you very much for your help guys.

3組目　ネパール出身のカップルに初体験について聞いてみた

Where are you from?

We are from Nepal, thank you for having us.

No worries, Thank you very much for cooperating my video. Nepal, How long have you guys been in Australia for now?

It’s been like two years now.

Are all Nepalis fluent English speakers?

Sort of,

Most of them?

Your school education is all in English yeah?

Yes, they are.

Yes, We begin from the early stage like in our pre-school we start speaking English.

Yes, So when you learn like mathematic or whatever it’s all in English?

Yeah

Yeah of course you can speak English. Alright would you mind my asking how old you guys are?

Twenty five.

Are you guys a couple?

Yes, we are.

Okay, I wanna ask you a little bit thing about a relationship.

But it can be a little bit of intimate question as well, I hope you wouldn’t mind.

We’ll try our best to answer.

Yeah thank you, This is my image but compare to Western people or let’s say Latin people.

Asian people are little bit conservative about intimate relationship and sort of stuff, I’m not too sure about Nepalis but like Japanese, your image is maybe Japanese people a little bit conservative, right?

I don’t think so.

I think our country is more conservative than yours I guess.

Could you answer to this question? How old were you when you had the first time?

I would say after coming to Australia, It was my first time that was like twenty three years old.

So that was your first time, And do you think twenty three years old is a young age in your country?

I think it is.

Yes, for our country it is like.

For married people, I would say if they get married early age it’s alright for them, but in our country yeah. Before marriage it’s like they don’t accept.

So usually after you get married and it’s okay to do stuff like that.

Oh interesting, So it’s very different, huh?

It’s really good to know.

Because I know that each country has like different kind of culture and religion as well I think.

So in Nepal it really doesn’t happen like just to go to a party when you are eighteen years old and find a good looking girl or boy?

Definitely no.

It doesn’t happen.

Wow! It’s really different.

The thing of the pub concept and the club concept is a bit different in our country, like we don’t normally go out for pub or clubbing as in like, It’s not regarded as like you can go there and then you can find someone or something like that. Your parents don’t allow you to go for night clubs and stuff there so.

But do you have a night clubs there?

Yeah we have.

But just go there for just drinking with your friends or something?

Yeah

Not to look for someone?

It’s actually more like for foreigners.

Oh tourists?

And then like if you go party and stuff like that, It’s only for a group of like friends and stuff.

Yeah, We go as in with a group and then we go with our friends, So we just go there and have fun, that’s it we don’t go there to find someone or something like that, it’s doest happen.

You know, I’m really thankful to you guys because it’s so interesting to know different cultures and different perspective things, really good to know. Thank you very much for your cooperation.

Thank you so much for having us.

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