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【異次元】外国人に初体験はいつなのか聞いてみたらこうなった

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1組目　ロサンゼルス出身の女性に初体験がいつか聞いてみた

Thank you very much for your help, Where are you from?

I’m from Los Angeles

Los Angeles in America wow!

You came from Los Angeles to Bondi Beach.

You came from heaven to heaven.

Heaven to heaven I sure I did

I like your sunglasses by the way.

Thank you Ray-Bans I love them too

Mine’s Ray-Bans too.

I like yours.

Yeah this are cool, All right. How old are you?

Thirty.

Thirty?

I’m thirty one, You don’t look like thirty.

Thank you!

You are looking pretty cool

I appreciate that.

What’s the reason you came to Australia?

So I came out here because I just needed a break from LA, You know, I was just needing it to get away from that place, So it’s great but I just needed a new chain like a new scenery and so I work as a nurse and so I had an opportunity to work out here.

Yeah, Was it too overwhelming in LA?

Yeah LA is very overwhelming, It’s just too many people and the traffic’s really bad.

Lots of things happening high?

Yeah lots.

Well I don’t see many American people in Australia, I think American people like being in America.

I think they like to be in America.

Because you barely meet them out here.

No I don’t. So today I’m making an educational contents in Bondi Beach.

I’m asking people question about relationship, It can be a bit intimate question.

Yeah, I hope you wouldn’t mind.

I don’t mind at all.

It’s nothing crazy, As an American girl?

How old were you when you had the first time?

I was twenty five.

Yeah, So five years ago.

Okay, Is twenty five quite late in your country?

That’s late late in my country, A lot of people lose it when they are like eighteen.

You think that’s the average?

I think that’s the average age.

Okay so this is my image but American people are really open minded about many things, So I thought maybe sixteen or something is the average age but actually eighteen you think?

Yeah that’s true though.

Oh yeah, Some people do but yeah.

Okay, According to a Japanese survey apparently the average age for Japanese people to have the first time is twenty years old.

Okay, that’s sound pretty reasonable

So when you had the first time was it with your partner at the time?

Actually it was with just some guy that I was like talking to.

Oh yeah Do you regret about it?

Not really, I had know him for quite sometime and so I felt comfortable with him.

So you had a kind of like a trust and a connection between?

We had a connection for sure.

That’s make sense.

Last question, We are all human, I’m human and you’re human, Sometimes when you are with someone we feel like, ‘Okay, I think I don’t mind to be in an intimate relationship with this person” What do you think is the biggest factor to have you think like that? Like I’m okay with this person.

Is it like appearance?

Okay, I think for me it’s the connection.

Yeah, It’s when you feel so comfortable with the person and you don’t understand why they make you feel so at home, I think that’s when you know ” You found it” like. Okay, this is somebody, I’m gonna commit myself too, I’m connected to them I feel comfortable around them, Feel like I’ve know them for years when you maybe only have know them for a couple of months.

Yeah right. So even the person is like super good looking or whatever, If you don’t have like a trust and connection.

Doesn’t matter, Not gonna waste my time.

All right, That’s really good to know, That’s the way for the things to happen.

Trust and connection.

Yes absolutely.

Thank you very much for your help.

2組目　シドニー出身の女性２人に初体験がいつか聞いてみた

Konichiwa

Konichiwa, Did you study Japanese in your school?

Yeah in primary school that’s all I know.

Like one year?

Uh six years but that’s all I remember.

Okay, Did you study Japanese?

No.

No she didn’t choose Japanese,

That’s okay. Where are you guys from?

Sydney.

What are you guys doing today in Bondi Beach?

It’s just for a walk.

Enjoying the sun?

Okay, Today I’m making a video about relationship. You know I’m fron Japan, Japanese image about Western people, Western people are very open about many things, Do you guys have a partner by the way?

No.

That’s alright, I wanna ask you guys, According to a Japanese survey, The average age for the first time experience in Japan is apparently twenty years old, I don’t know if it’s early or late for you guys, But as an Australian girl I wanna ask you, When is your first time? How old were you?

You go.

So first time was Saturday.

No, that’s not true, She’s joking

Okay, that’s not true?

Um my first time was maybe two years ago.

So okay, When you were like seventeen or something?

Was it with your partner at the time?

Yeah it was with my second boyfriend.

Do you think seventeen is early age in this country or not in Australia?

I don’t think so.

Average?

But I wouldn’t say maybe a little bit less than average, I think probably wait till at least eighteen but you know.

Okay, Do you regret about it or are you okay with it?

No, I’m okay with it and I think it’s fine I was happy like I had a boyfriend and I trusted him, I think it just depends on your situation.

Do you have any friends that like regret about it for the first time?

No I think if you have a bad experience you’ll regret it, but I don’t think it’s you’ll regret it, but I don’t think it’s about age more, So maybe the other person or like the relationship in terms of like your teenage years I think it’s more making sure you trust who you are with and feel comfortable.

I think you just need to go with your gut, When it’s right.

I was a little bit older and wasn’t in a relationship and I regret it, I think that if you stick to your guts and you think you go with what’s right and in the moment feels right obviously, You know have a good head and shoulders but there’s no shame in waiting and that’s I’m gonna say on that issue.

That’s very true.

Make sure you are not pressured or anything.

Yeah, You don’t have to think about other people doing it or not doing it and you don’t have to feel the pressure from that.

Yeah, As long as you feel like this is what I wanna do right now, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with it.

All right, We all human, right sometimes we feel like “Okay, I think, I don’t mind to be intimate with this person” or something like that, We always have the moment.

What’s the biggest factor to make you feel like that? It is like a good looking appearance or?

I think it comes down to like two things for me personally, I think it’s how you feel about the person at the time and maybe could be in a relationship with them, Maybe could be someone who you just meet that sort of vibe and also think that it has do a lot with how you feel about yourself, Coz it’s not great to do something you don’t wanna do when you don’t feel great about yourself.

Even if you feel like you do, Do it at the time it’s like come back to yourself and think about past, couple of months, How you been feeling with yourself and If you feel good about yourself, I’d say go for it and If you’re not in the best head space I’d say, Give it a beat. You’ll get better soon and everything will be sweet.

That’s right, How about you?

Like in terms of who you go for in the moment?

It’s more like when you feel like okay, I don’t mind to be intimate with this person, What’s the reason that makes you feel like that? I know it’s difficult.

Mine’s definitely like comfort, Like you have to make me feel comfortable.

Yeah, Because it’s very intimate thing, So like if you are not comfortable it can escalate pretty quickly to something you don’t wanna do.

So as long you feel like comfortable and You feel like they are not gonna judge you or anything like,

Yeah trust that’s what I would say.

Good to know, Thank you very much ladies

Arigato gozaimasu.

3組目　マレーシア出身の男性に初体験について聞いてみた

Where are you from?

Kuala Lumpur representing.

How long have you been in Australia for now?

It’s coming up to three years now.

You enjoying it?

I am having amazing three years these are not any normal three years, Three of my best years in my life.

You don’t have a Malaysian accent at all.

Yeah I had to switch it because Australian don’t understand when I speak with a thick Malaysian accent and costumer service for two years taught me I had to do some tweaking.

Oh you work in costumer service?

Did it help a lot?

It helped me a lot, Having conversation with Australian everyday.

Kind of improves your English too because English is not my first language either.

This is really important to know.

You know, If you use English for work it really improves.

It improve my English too.

So today in Bondi Beach, I’m making an educational contents about, Let’s say intimate relationship.

It’s nothing crazy, But I wanna ask you as a Malaysian person.

How old are you when you had the first time?

Man I was not old, I was nineteen.

Nineteen is not too old i think.

How old are you by the way?

Thirty five.

You look pretty young.

Okay, So was it with your partner at the time?

It wasn’t with a partner but it was a girl I was trying for a few months.

And then it eventually happened and it was a day to celebrate.

　So did you guys started dating after that?

We start seeing each other for a few weeks but then I started realizing she was annoying.

Yeah sometimes.

Yeah, All this imagination that I had before that, Was just all lie.

Yeah sometimes you find out what the person is actually after a couple of weeks or months. You know it’s my image because I have a couple of Malaysian friends in Australia, I think in Malaysia it’s a, how do you call like it’s a pretty conservative country?

It is a quit conservative country to be honest.

Is nineteen the average age? Or do you think it’s pretty early in your country?

I think with my friends it’s pretty late.

Yeah because people are conservative.

You mean later than nineteen usually?

Yeah, Usually it’s later than nineteen later that eighteen so yeah, It’s pretty normal that, People rarely have sex earlier than the years because it’s just too conservative to be honest, I don’t know other words to use.

I’ve spoken to a Malaysian and she’s a girl and she said usually like people to tend to have the intimate relationship after they get a marriage, Is it like that?

Yeah, A lot of them do, I know quite a few people that only started having an intimate relationship after their marriage and it blows my mind, I don’t know how you gonna wait until twenty five or your thirty.

Yeah it’s hard.

All your best years are gone.

Two thousand twenty one nowadays.

Yeah, But people do that in Malaysia, a lot.

But like you some people don’t mind and just do that whenever they want to do?

I don’t mind, I was conservative as I tried to be it just wasn’t my life so.

Okay, Interesting. According to a survey in Japan, Apparently the average age for Japanese people is twenty years old, Do you think it’s late or early in your country?

To be honest twenty is, I would say in Malaysia it will be slightly younger, But twenty is a reasonable age because that’s how the society is like.

People don’t really go out and hook up open and it’s not what everybody does, Everybody want’s to settle it down and find someone, Find a boyfriend and all of that, So it kind a take time.

Right, That’s good to know. Thank you very much for your help

How do you say it in Malaysian?

Say what? Thank you?

Terima kasih

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