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1組目　ボンダイ、ブルーマウンテン出身の2人組の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you ladies from?

Bondi right here

Blue mountains

Not too bad at all I’ve been there

Vetu far away but it’s still beautiful

This is Tuesday afternoon now and you are obviously here on Bondi Beach

Are you not working today? Having a day off?

Getting a day off very lucky! It’s sunny! Why not?

How about you?

Basically just getting some chill before university starts

You go to study

In this video I have some questions that I wanna ask you

Which are going to be about friendship between men and women

And I know that there are many kind of relationships out there

And I don’t judge anyone and I’m completely fair to everyone

But in this video just let me ask you in this way

Do you have any different gender friends?

Yes, I definitely do

How many?

I would say solid two

And this is because I’m in a relationship

And so I’ve had there two guys friends for quite a while

They’s always been there

And I think you definitely can have

Good relationships with guys even though I’m in a relationship

I’ll ask you about that

I love them so

How about you?

So I’ve had the same male friends since kindergarten

So I have maybe three or four

Best friends together so it’s very platonic

We’ve just stayed friends for such a long time

So according to a research of a Japanese popular magazine

More than seventy percent of Japanese male said

They cannot build a friendship with female

On the other hand more than seventy percent of female

Say that they can confidently build a friendship with male

You both believe that you can build a relationship with male

Definitely

So my question is gonna be like this

People say they cannot establish a friendship with a different sox

They are more likely to say that they cannot because

They subconsciously can’t help thinking something else

Can’t help looking for something else

Even they are kind of like friends you know what I mean?

Have you ever reached to the point where you thought he is a really close friend but

The emotion kind went to a romantic way?

Definitely been there but

I think it’s good to establish boundaries

And set them with when you feel like they are necessary

Because you never wanna lose a friendship over it

So it’s kind of like people have to read the atmosphere?

Definetely

What about you?

I agree I’m just so lucky that

Boys that I’ve grown up with they’ve never put me through that

They are smart enough yeah

Coz I feel like because we’ve known each other so long we see each others like siblings

But of it’s in the case that it has come to being close friends to them confessing their feelings then

I don’t see it coming back from that

And going back to being just friends

Not because I reciprocate but more

They wouldn’t be able to get over the fact that you don’t feel the same about them

The last question is gonna be like this

You strongly think that you can establish a friendship with male

So what about this?

Let’s say you have a boyfriend at the moment

Because you believe that there is a friendship with male

You go to have a coffee or grab some drinks with other men

Is that gonna be okay to you do you think?

And also if your boyfriend said because he believes in the same way

We wants to go out to have a coffee or have some drinks with another girl

Is that gonna be alright?

I think you have to be very respectful

And you have to know that he’s okay with you seeing other guys

But also obviously it’s not too restrictive

So I think in a sense you can definitely have the best of both worlds

Being a relationship and having guy friends

I don’t think it’s an issue

I agree coz we are both in a relationship

Our boyfriends are actually friends

I think it’s okay if your boyfriend is comfortable with specific people

I mean I feel like it’s a bit hypocritical

To be like you can’t hangout one on one with a girl

Whereas I do have friends

But I wouldn’t hangout with them one on one

But like I do have friends and I’m just like close to

Where he’s not probably close to but he’s okay with so

I really think it depends

But if it’s a random girl that you’ve never met them before

Or you are not aware of or you have no relationship, no!

That’s a deal breaker

Be careful guys

Be careful guys and girls

Thank you very much! Loved your answer!

2組目　ミュンヘン出身の2人組の男性に聞いてみた！

Good looking boys where are you from?

We are from Munich Germany

This is random but in this video I have some questions that I want to ask you

Which are going to be about relationship between male and female

I have to say that there are many kind of relationships out there

I don’t judge anyone and I’m completely fair to every person

But in this video just let me ask you like this

Do you have any female friends?

I do

How many do you think?

Like around twenty

You have a lot of girls yeah

Look at him!

How about you? Do you have any female friends?

I think I have more female friends than male friends

This is the main thing of this video

According to a research of a Japanese popular magazine

Seventy percent of Japanese male say they cannot build a friendship with female

On the other hand

About seventy percent of Japanese ladies say they can build a friendship with men

So this is very different

What do you think about this?

Can you establish a friendship with female?

So basically I think you can be friends with female but

I think as a boy like there’s always some different thoughts in the back of your mind

Most of the time it’s hard to have a real friendship because

My brain thinks always something like

Am I attractive to the girl?

You can be a friend you can talk to many things with girls

But I’m actually thinking about something else

You cannot help subconsciously thinking of, looking for something aye

What do you think? You said you have a lot of female friends

I think it’s absolutely possible to be friends

Why do you think so?

I think men and women are not that different and

I also have like two very close friends and I can tell them everything and

I know they will be there for me

I would never think of soxual way

So I consider you as a person who cannot really build a proper friendship with female

Let me say so

And you can absolutely

So let’s say you have a girlfriend at the moment

And your girlfriend think that she can build a friendship with men

She says because he’s a friend

She’s going to have a coffee or drinking with the man

Can you accept it or not?

I wouldn’t let her

Because I know what a lot of boys think and its’s true high risk for me to let her go on a date

Like I know him good and if I’m friends with him too

Then maybe yeah

But only one on one date is a bit tough yeah

So let’s say if you have a girlfriend

And your girlfriend says she is going to have a coffee or drinking with male

What do you think? Is that gonna be okay to you?

Well, it depends

But I’d like to meet him and if I think he’s a cool guy and I like him and

I also get to know him better

I think it’s okay

Interesting guys! Thank you very much!

3組目　シドニー出身の2人組の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

We are from Sydney

You have a bit of sand on your face were you swimming over there?

Yeah we were we having a nice tan

In this video I have some questions which are going to be about friendship between men and women

FIrst of all you have any different gender friends?

Yeah we do

Yeah

How many do you think?

Quite a few just like here and there

I’ve got my boyfriend and I literally have one

Do you believe that you can be still friends with your ex-boyfriend?

Yeah I reckon so I think

Some of them are included in your friends?

Yeah they are

How about you? What do you think?

No way

You answered yea to the friendship you can be friends with men

This is the main thing of this video

According to a research of a Japanese popular magazine

Approximately, seventy percent of Japanese male say no to this question cannot be friends with female

On the other hand about seventy percent of Japanese ladies say they can be friends with men

Have you ever reached to the point where you thought it’s a friendship with that person

But then eventually it became like a romantic feeling towards the person, have you?

Yeah

You can be in a relationship with even like close friends? Start from close friends and then you can eventually be in a relationship?

Yeah I reckon so

What about you?

WIth the best friend you said let’s say if you don’t have a boyfriend can you become like boyfriend?

I’ve never had that happened

But I’ve seen it happened to other people I don’t see why not

But it wouldn’t happen with the man

So the last question and the main question of this video is gonna be like this

You said you can be friends with men

Let’s say you have a boyfriend

And your boyfriend says he believes in that way too

He can be friends with female

And one day he said I’m going to have a coffee

And drinking with the girl

Because they are friends

Can you accept it?

Yeah, we can

You are not gonna argue with your boyfriend?

No, look it’s all about trust so I think it’s fine

It’s all about trust

Now I like Australian girls

Thank you very much for your help

Enjoy your day

4組目　シドニー出身の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Sydney Australia

You look like having a good day aye

Yeah I am! Beautiful!

Are you working today?

Yes, I am

What do you do?

Just rentals

Just people rent stuffs and just drop off, pick up stuffs and that’s it really

You don’t seem you are working at the moment

A bit of break

Look at the beach

Too many breaks aye?

How old are you by the way?

I’m nineteen

You look quite matured man! Positively matured

Yes, I am! Thank you

In this video I have some questions about friendship between men and women

Do you have female friends that you can talk about anything?

To be honest, no, I don’t at the moment

The thing is like this according to a research of a Japanese popular magazine

More than seventy percent of Japanese male say they cannot establish friendship with women

On the other hand

Seventy percent of women say they can build friendship with men

What do you think about this? Can you build friendship with female?

I’m gonna gave to disagree with women side and agree with the men

Yeah just no you just can’t

Let’s say you have a partner now

And she say that she believes that she can build a proper friendship with men

That’s why you has male friends

And she wants to go to have a coffee or drinking with the man

Are you gonna accept it or you are not going to?

No way! I can’t

Unless I’m with them, no problem

But them together privately, no, I can’t accept it

I like to get different opinions from different people

Thank you very much for your honest opinion

And I hope you are not taking too many break and you work Thank you mate

5組目　アルゼンチン出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Argentina

I’ve interviewed so many Argentina people

On Bondi Beach especially

There are heaps

We have too many here

Why so many Argentinian people come to Australia?

I think it’s because we can save so much money here

Work here, get a lot of money and go back

In Argentina it’s too hard

You can’t save money

How about after you graduated from university? It’s still difficult?

I’m a physiotherapist and my salary a month was five hundred dollars

So you make so much money here yeah?

If you go home you are quite rich

That makes sense

In this video, this is very random but I have some questions about friendship between men and women

Do you have any make friends?

Yes, I have one it’s my best friend

He’s straight

Because I have so many gay friends

But just one straight

Where did you meet him? In school?

In university

So the think is like this

According to a research of Japanese popular magazine

More than seventy percent of Japanese men said

They cannot build friendship with women

On the other hand more than seventy percent of women said

They can build friendship with men

So my question is gonna be

Do you think you can make a proper friendship with men?

Yes!

Because there are many people who say no to this

They say” Because when I’m with women”

“I cannot help myself thinking something else”

She is too nice or she it too beautiful, something like that

So you don’t feel in that way to your best friend?

Actually the first time I met him it’s like he tired to … yeah

Invited me to a date but no

Now he’s my best friend so

So even after that you can still be a friend?

Yeah

When I was in Argentina we meet to have dinner and

Sometimes he stays in my place in my bed

He doesn’t do anything?

No,never

Sorry I’m just one guy in this planet

I cannot believe him

I cannot believe this! Cannot!

Do you think it’s possible for you to be

In more like a romantic relationship after being best friends?

Yeah I think it’s easier

Because you have like, I don’t know, confidence

It’s your best friend

Because you know him and you know this person is okay

And you accept all of it

So sometimes it can happen yeah?

Yeah I think it’s easier

Is he looking for that?

My last question is gonna be like this

You believe women can establish friendship with men

But what about this? Let’s say you have a boyfriend

And your boyfriend said he believes in the same way

He can build friendship with women

And you said “I’m going to have a coffee with my friend”

“I’m going to go for drinks with my friend”

“She is just my friend”

Can you accept it?

Yes

I will accept it but for example

If I was in a relationship, I think…

So so

Need to think about it yeah?

I get it

Thank you very much! That was really fun to talk to you

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