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デートは男が奢るべき？外国人に聞いてみたらこうなったww

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1組目　イタリア出身の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

From Italy

Forgive me to ask you this random question

Do you have a partner now?

Yes, I do have a partner in Italy

Does she miss you?

Of course! And I miss her too

In this video I’m interviewing people here in Sydney

About a tweet

Which has been blowing up in Japan

So let me ask you your opinions around that

When was the last time you went on a date?

It was on mid October with my girlfriend

You went to lunch or dinner or something?

It was lunch

Did you pay for everything there?

No, I didn’t

We shared

So a famous female influencer in Japan she posted on Twitter

Which was pretty much like “Men should pay for everything”

Women spend time on preparing clothes doing some makeups and cosmetics are expensive and

Men should know the fact that women get up early

To be as attractive as they can

That’s why she said men should pay for everything

What do you think about this?

Do you agree with her or disagree with her?

I completely disagree with her

I prefer to split

Especially, when a couple is not married

Each of the person has got an independent life

Even though they are fiance

Especially, if both of them work

Is it sort of like a respect for each of them?

Yeah, I think so

To be fair to each other because

I think that a man pays for everything for his girlfriend

There are people who like to do that

I think that that main thing is if I invite you on a date

I sould pay for it

But I pay for the dinner

You pay for the taxi

SO gove the attitude to make it fair and equal and

That’s gonna be a respect to the other person as well

Because we don’t have money for free

We struggle to make money so

I think it is fair to spilt

So with your girlfriend you split bills usually?

Usually we do but sometimes I do love to

To buy her food to buy her gift and something like that

I personally want to split

Like you said money is not free

We work hard and stuff like that

Let’s leave your girlfriend but think about your life

When you go on a date you don’t wanna pay all the time right?

If the girl expects you to pay for everything

Do you have guts to say “Can we split the bill?”

Absolutely!

I’d say “No, we are going to split” and

I won’t see the girl anymore

Because it’s the kind of girl that you don’t want in your life

If i’ve got to pay for everything I do love to do that but

It’s gonna be my initiative

If I, for example, propose to go eating something

And she says “I can’s actually afford it”

Then it is my initiative to say “No worries” “I’ll take care of it”

In that case it is my initiative so

That means that I love to do that but

I don’t have to feel restricted to do that

Just because you don’t want to pay it’s not fair

Thank you very much for your sharing your thought

2組目　インドネシア出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Indonesia

Do you have a partner now?

No, I don’t

Enjoying a single life in Australia

In this video I’m gonna ask you some questions about a tweet

So let me ask you your opinions on it and what it is like on your country

When was the last time you went on a date?

Five months ago

Was it with a Indonesian guy?

Yeah

Do you remember if he paid for all the bills or did you go dutch?

He always pays for bills

A female influencer in Japan

Posted on Twitter

Which was pretty much like “Men should pay for everything”

Because women spend a lot of money on cosmetics and

Prepare clothes, do their makeups and

Men should knew the fact that women get up early

To be as attractive as possible

And this has gone like blowing up

Because men are like “What the f!?” Like “Are you serious?” And

But some girls are on her side

What do you think about this?

Personally, for the first date I think men should pay first but

As the relationship hoes on I feel like we should split sometimes

What is it like though in Indonesia?

Men usually do pay first

Always men pay?

Yeah

I feel like it’s a culture

It’s a tradition like everyone just

Like our parents just assume that men should pay first

So it’s a really culture yeah

I feel like I would try to you know like reach out to my wallet but

Reach out to my wallet and like..

Pretend to…

You know what to do aye

Let’s talk about the Indonesia culture

If men don’t try to pay

You feel like this guy has no money?

I guess it depends who asked to go on the date

If it’s me if I was the one who initiate like ask them to go on a date with me then I would expect me to pay but

If he ask

Then he pays

Thank you very much for teaching me your culture

3組目　シドニー、インドネシア出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Australia, Sydney

I was born in Indonesia but I was raised in Australia

Are you guys a couple?

Yes

In this video I’m interviewing people in Australia

About a tweet which has been blowing up in Japan

So let me ask you your opinions on it

And also what it is like in your country

But first of all obviously you are having a date right now?

Lunch and shopping

When you go on a date do you pay for everything? Or do you split usually?

Not everything but he dose pay when he wants to

And you pay sometimes too?

Yes sometimes yeah

Because a female influencer in Japan

Posted on Twitter

It was pretty much like men should pay for everything

Because she says women spend a lot of time preparing clothes, doing a makeup

And cosmetics are expensive

What do you think about this? From women’s perspective

So I think still today in a lot of Asian families

There is a lot of uptake about how women should be high value

About how they should be respected

And within the family like

They should be able to get a guy who’s able to take care of her and

Most of the time they way that they can show that is through like

Paying for stuff, paying for food and yeah

Asian families still have the traditional mindset but

I think in the Western culture there’s been an uprise

With the ideal that women are independent now

And can kind of just like go on their own like yeah

And like equality as well so like

Fair wages so especially yeah

I’m stingy hell

Yeah

Don’t you feel sometimes you wanna make it equal?

I think it depends on like where you are raised and born

Coz I think like you said in Asian countries it’s more traditional and old fashion

They tend to raise their kids or their man and saying

“Hey, you should be paying for this” “You should be a gentle man” “You should be doing all this”

And I was like raised that way back in Philippines and like

Still like coming to Australia it has opened like new perspective

Where it’s like a growing society and

Like you said there is like an equality here and

I’m new to the idea because I am sort of old fashion myself and more traditional

Where I used to like hard believe that I should be paying for everything

But this new idea like where women should also be equal and all that stuff

I think it’s like much better but

I guess like in our relationship we probably do like

I have this one and you can have the next one

Instead of like splitting

And maybe if I get lucky I’ll be shutting Mcdonald’s and then

She’ll be shutting like a five star restaurant

Maybe it might line up like that but

You gotta be smart aye

I like that

I’m gonna apply that to my lifestyle

Thank you very much! Enjoy your day!

4組目　コロンビア出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Colombia

Me too

What are you doing today?

I had lunch with my friend

I in the moment had an ice cream

My favorite flavor of ice cream is pistachio

Okay pistachio ice cream is now my favorite flavor now

On YouTube or tv shoe\ws we see Colombian models

Many Colombian beautiful models but

Never seen in my life

FIrst time

Now I understand

Muy bien!

How can I say very beautiful?

Muy hermosa!

Do you have a partner now?

Yeah

In Colombia or in Australia?

In Australia

What about you?

Me too

Just one boyfriend?

Of course

Sorry my English is not good

Do you remember when was the last time you had a date?

Last weekend

Last weekend

Do you remember if your boyfriend paid for everything?

So so

I think men pay everyday

Because women are queen

You think so

Yeah

Women are queen! Men pay for everything?

How about Colombian culture?

Do usually men pay for everything?

Yeah

What do you think about this?

Me?

Me? Stingy

I don’t want to pay but okay

Half half okay but a little bit more I can pay

Half half but a little bit more I pay is okay

Muchas gracias

5組目　シドニー、ロンドン出身の2人組に聞いてみた！<

Where are you from?

I’m from London

Sydney Australia

Do you have a partner now?

No, I’m single

I do

In this video I’m gonna ask you some questions about a tweet

Which has been blowing up in Japan

A female influencer in Japan posted a feed on Twitter

Which is pretty much saying that “Men should pay for everything”

Because women spend money on cosmetics

Spend a lot of time to do a makeup and to prepare clothes

Men should know the fact that women get up early

And try to be as attractive as possible

And it’s gone like on fire

Because men are like “What the hell?”

But some ladies are on her side

What do you think about this?

I think for me personally I don’t wanna pay fort heir time

I think it’s nice when okay like I will treat the person like I think it’s a kind thing to do

But I don’t like the fact like women complain on the idea that men have to do everything

I think it’s a nice thing a nice balance to have

But also I don’t have an issue on a first date if I have to pay

It’s just so I can get that

The extra brownie points

I don’t wanna be seen as like someone who’s quite tight their money

Sometimes if the woman is lovely then why not? She should be treated

But then also again I think it’s a nice thing when they can also pay something as well

I think one of the worst things you can do is to date when you’re broke

Something that you shouldn’t be doing

You can go out with your wife or everybody can go through hard time but

Maybe going on a date with new people when you are broke is not the best idea

Do you think that there are many girls who expect that men pay for everything in your country?

Yes, there is

I’ve had experience my ex

She was very like men should pay for everything

And I had also been dating in a relationship where it was “You know what” “I’m a bit of feminist”

“I wanna be equal with everything”

“Whatever we do we should pay for half”

“I’m really happy to take a lean on certain things”

And I think that’s also a good thing so

I think it depends on the person completely

As I said I had an experience where there has been times where

The person’s been like “I want you to pay for everything”

After while it gets bit like

I wanna be treated a little bit so

I think mostly in the UK it’s changing a little bit I think

Especially more women claim to pay for their part

There’s always certain cases where you get a bit odd women that will demand that you pay for everything

Here are women are very empowered

I think in Australia they work and they are quite independent so

I like that

At the same time I believe that when both party they can meet half way sometimes it’s better

It shows if the feeling is real or not

Thank you very much for your great opinion

6組目　ドイツ、カナダ出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Germany

I’m from Canada

Do you have a partner now?

Yes, I have a boyfriend

In Australia?

No, in Gemany

You left him in Germany?

He must be crying now

He was really sad

What about you?

Yes, I’m married actually

Where is your partner?

In Canada

When was the last time you went on a date?

Four months ago

Do you remember if you paid for the bills on the date? Or men paid for it?

Depends Sometimes he pays

Because sometimes it’s really important for men to pay

But if you go often on date Then i think it’s fair to split

Also I can pay so half half

So a famous female influencer in Japan

Posted on Twitter which was pretty much saying

“Men should pay for everything on date”

Because women prepare clothes spend a lot of money on cosmetics

Spend a lot of time on makeup

What do you think about this?

I think that dosen’t matter

I’m not comfortable if he wants to pay because

I feel like I owe him something

I prefer to split and

I’m independent so yeah

What do you think about this?

I’m stingy as well so

I don’t need to go split but

I at least want a girl to show their attitude that being thankful

If I think about my dates I’ve had in my life

Sometimes girls didn’t even say think you

Don7t even try to show that they are trying to pay

Maybe ask me “How much was it?”

And I’ll say “Don’t worry! I’ll pay”

But if you don’t show any attitude I feel like

Don’t take it for granted!

Thank you very much! It was interesting

7組目　インド出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

We are from India

You guys are wearing sunnies

I have to wear sunnies just give me one moment

Looking handsome without sunglasses

You know how to give a compliment to people yeah?

Are you guys a couple by any chance?

We are married for fifteen years

How old are you guys?

I’m thirty nine

You guys are looking pretty young

In this video I’m interviewing people about a tweet on Twitter

So let me ask you your thought on it and also what it is like in your country

But first of all. did you have a lunch or something?

Yes

Who paid for it?

I paid for it

Because I’m a housewife

She doesn’t work

You take care of the housework and all that

A famous female influencer in Japan a few weeks ago

Posted a feed on Twitter saying that

“Men should pay for everything”

Because she says women take time to prepare clothes cosmetics are expensive

Takes time to do makeup and all the effort

Do you agree with her or disagree with her?

Disagree

Because there is not much difference between men and women

Take their responsibility

What is it like in your country?

Do usually men pay for everything?

No, not like that

It’s like case to case

But I’d say a majority of time men pay

If they are working they can pay

In my case I’m not working

And it’s more of like a culture thing I would say

Because in India it’s mostly arranged marriages

So parents find someone and

Our case was like that

So you didn’t know each other until that?

Correct

Did you go for like a casual date?

Nothing like that

Actually we met once before the marriage

And then only for the marriage day

We got three months to chat

I’m not like trying to be rude or anything

I’m just curious and want to know the different culture

Are you not afraid to get married with someone who you only know for three months?

Yeah

Because we can’t do anything

In our generation the custom is like that

Because we can’t say anything

Fifty fifty yeah

Are you the lucky one then?

Yes

Like I was saying it’s fifteen years ago

How about now?

Not things are changing

Now people start finding, living together

I still agree with one point like

Women need to be more attractive

So they have to pay a lot for cosmetics and whatever she was saying

For girls finding a guy is more kind of difficult if they are not attractive

So they have to make an investment right

And boys have to answer to that?

Yes

Thank you for sharing your opinions

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