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1組目　アメリカ出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from the United States

What do you do in Australia then?

I’m on a Working Holiday visa so I’m just here for a year

I actually work right over there

I didn’t know that American people can get Working Holiday visa

Do many people do that?

Not many Americans I haven’t met many

A lot of Canadians

Me neither

I think American people are too busy aye

They are

I interview people in the world about many kind of topics

To see if there is like ant culture contrasts between our Japanese culture and the others

And I’ve done a lot about relationship and stuff

Today I’m asking people their thoughts on chating

FIrst of all, do you have a partner now?

Notcurrently but

Have you ever had a partner in your life?

I have year

I need to ask you how many partners have you had in your life?

I’ve only dated one person

That’s more than enough

Generally speaking, I think Japanese people will say

Obviously, if you go watch films together with someone else that’s cheating

Or if you are secretly texting someone that’s gonna be cheating or something like that

But it depends on person I reckon

Simply, what do you think is cheating for you?

I think cheating for me is if my partner were to create a meaningful connection with another person

And want to explore that

Then that would be cheating for me if we are in a relationship at the time

You are really good at verbalizing things in your head aye

I tired my best but I couldn’t say the sentence but exactly right I feel the same

According to a research on a popular magazine in Japan

More than thirty percent of people have ever cheated in a relationship

Do you think American people cheat more than that or not many American people cheat?

I think it’s really popular in the US to cheat

I think the dating culture in the US is little but more fluent maybe

I think dating and like meaningful connections are a harder to come by

Especially in bigger cities

But I think like once you are in the relationship maybe cheating is a little bit less common

But the hookup culture is really big

Let’s say if you had a partner now

What of you found out that he is cheating on you?

Maybe he’s texting someone and

Trying to explore a bit more

I mean my first reaction is to try to figure out what the connection between my partner and

Who might else he’s speaking with is or

If he wants to explore that a bit more

And then of course my first reaction is if it’s going to turn into something and he wants to act on it

Is to dump him but

In the moment you don’t really know how you are gonna act

So you are not gonna be like emotional straightaway but

You’ll calm down and try to see what’s happening

What’s the reason and see what’s gonna happen

So my last question is gonna be like this this is the main question

Only Japanese people will watch this video so I want you to be totally honest

Have you ever cheated on a person when you are in a relationship?

I have never cheated on a person

So you are definitely not gonna be a cheater in your life like

If you date someone for like a year, two years

It can be not gonna be as romantic as the beginning

And people get kind of like bored

You trust yourself in like not gonna cheat on anyone?

I would hope I wouldn’t but

I haven’t yet

Thank you very much! That was interesting

Please enjoy your day

2組目　オーストラリア出身の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Australia but my background is from Greece

What do you do?

I was in construction for ten years and now I work in a butcher shop

What made you do that?

Family business you know

Did you want to takeover or you kinda had to takeover?

I think in my culture it’s like that family works with each other

So I’m blessed to have this you know what I mean

As long as you are happy about it, that’s good

I interview people about many kind of topics

To see if there is any like cultural differences between our Japanese culture and the others

I’ve done a lot of interviews about relationship

Today I’m focusing on cheating

“What is cheating?” And stuff

Do you have a partner now?

No, I don’t

How old are you?

Twenty seven

Have you ever had a partner in your life?

Yeah

How many partners have you had?

I’d say two

It really depends in the person but

I think generally in my country Japan people will say

If you secretly start texting someone else that’s kind of like cheating

Obviously, if you had a driving date with someone else that’s cheating and

That depends on the person but

What is cheating for you?

I think what you said was pretty relevant

If I commit to a relationship, I think that

That’s my commitment and if I’m veering off to another direction

Talking to other women trying to flirt

Trying to get attention, variation from other people

It’s really a form of being disrespectful in my relationship

Can you compromise if your girlfriend will go to have coffee with another man or

This is already no no?

I would first ask why

“Why are you going out with this man?”

“Who is he to you?”

Because realistically at the end of the day

I personally believe like I don’t have any women friends

I think women to me are for relationships and stuff like that but

And I think it so to goes the same in an opposite direction

Whether you wanna admit or not

You may go to a man and he might be attracted to you or

Give you the attention you want or

Something you are seeking from somewhere else right? So…

Initially,, you can call it what you want but

It’s a form of disrespect

Let’s say if you had a partner at the moment and what if she cheated on you?

What would you do?

Are you gonna break up straightaway?

Yeah I would

Because if I wasn’t there, I wasn’t there

If she was gonna do it, she is gonna do it

If she’s willing to do once, she’ll so it again

Once she solved it, she’s gonna do it again that’s your philosophy

I just look at it as a self-respect thing

So my last question is gonna be like this

I want you to be hundred percent honest to this question

have you ever cheated on your ex-partners?

Yeah so like I think for me it shows in the first question when you asked me how many girlfriends

I’ve had only had two

In the past like I saw a girl

Where I wasn’t going out with her

But we were dating sort of

But there was no commitment

And I had adventured off

And then once I did that I just completely shut it down

Because I found that in Australia you don’t have the thing to make a commitment

Because in my country you go on a date two or three times

We have a thing called “Kokuhaku” which means that “I want you to be my girlfriend”

And we make a commitment right there

But you don’t have that sort of thing, do you?

See that’s the thing it’s like you have loose terms in Australian culture right it’s like

I’m seeing you we are seeing each other but we are not boyfriend girlfriend right

And it’s like if you’re seeing me and I’m seeing you what is it? RIght?

So there is loose terms for it

There are a lot of people who have open-relationship in Australia

They are together but they can sleep around and like

So you don’t say that you cheated on someone but the relationship at the moment was vague

And you were like I’m not dating with you still so you kinda like expired

And then you shut down with that girl

I think for me in my situation I did adventured off and I was like alright

I own bit respect to the woman to stop here

Instead of keeping it going and lying to her or do you know what I mean? Whatever but

Coz I think in my culture as well it’s very disrespectful to do these things

Especially in your culture

Coming from my background and stuff like that so

That was interesting to hear your opinion

Thank you very much

How can I say thank you in your language?

ευχαριστώ

It’s so difficult

ευχαριστώ

3組目　ノルウェー、イングランド出身の2人組の女性に聞いてみた！ル

Where are you from?

I’m from Norway

England

I interview people about many kind of topics

To see if there is like any cultural contrasts between out Japanese cultures and the others

Today I’m focusing on cheating

First of all, do you have a partner now?

No

No

Would you mind my asking how old you guys are now?

Twenty four

Both of us are twenty four

Have you ever had a partner in your life then?

Yeah

Beautiful ladies, of course you, must have

It depends on a person but some people say in my country

If you are secretly texting someone else that’s cheating

Obviously, if you have a driving date that’s cheating

If you go watch films, that’s cheating

Simply, I wanna ask you what is cheating for you?

Above kissing is cheating

So having a coffee date

I don’t day date but

Having coffee with another girls is safe?

Yeah

I think it’s like honesty, isn’t it?

So like if you are open about it going for like a coffee is not a problem

Like as long as you are talking about it

But if you are being secret about something and like doing it behind a back

I think that’s cheating

That’s a good point! You are smart

As long as he or she talks to you first that’s gonna be alright but if you try to be secret

That’s gonna be like yellow flag

How many partners have you ever had in your life?

I had two

Just one if it’s a serious one

So let’s say if you had a partner at the moment

What would you do if you find out that your partner is cheating?

I will break up with them

No chance?

No

What do you think?

I think you just gotta break up

Coz the trust is ruined

Trust is ruined and it’s hard to go back

I think if someone’s cheating you’ve then got to like

have time apart clearing the issue

If you don’t come back together after that then

But I think in the moment you’ve got to like separate

So may last question is gonna be like this

I want you to be very honest to this question

Have you ever cheated on your partner?

No, but I’ve been cheated on

How did you find out?

He told me

And you broke up with him?

Yeah we broke up

What do you think was the cause of that cheating?

I think like ou relationship was like going down hill

And then he was on guys holiday so yeah

There was no fire between you and your ex-partner

And he was looking for maybe bit of fire

He regretted it but yeah

Have you ever cheated?

No never would

Never would either

Where are cheaters? There are all good people here

Thank you very much

Thank you and Tak?

Yeah that’s correct

Thank you very much

4組目　ドイツのハンブルク出身の2人組の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Germany Hamburg

We are from Germany Hamburg

You’ve got the sick tattoo and

You’ve got the sick body mate what’s happening right here?

Good looking men in video and many girls come to my video so thank you very much

Danke schon!

What do you do in Australia?

Working holiday visa

Me too so I just arrived like two days ago actually

So you must be quite young, aren’t you?

What do you think?

Let me guess

You are twenty three

And you are twenty two

I’m twenty five close enough

I’m turning twenty four next week

You look quite young

So guys this is very random but

I interview people about many kind of topics

To see like if there is any differences between out Japanese culture and the others

Today I’m asking an interview video about cheating

The reason why I’m making this video is first of all it sounds interesting

And also apparently more than thirty percent of Japanese people say

“I have cheated in my life”

So I wanna see what it is like in other countries

Do you think many German people cheat as well?

Of course

I would say even more than thirty percent

Do you have a partner now?

No

Single in Australia yeah

You seem like you have to be single in Australia baby

How many partners have you had in your life?

Real partners, I would say like two relationships

Serious partners are like four

What sort of partners were you thinking of?

Some nice friends

It depends on a person but some people say if you are secretly texting a girl friend or a boy friend that’s cheating

If you go have a coffee date that’s obviously cheating and stuff like that

What is no no for you? What is cheating?

To hide chats

Even hide stuffs like I would want to know and she knows it

But she doesn’t tell me

Has that happened in your relationship?

Have you ever found anything suspicious?

No actually I was the one

We need to ask you about that

So my last question and the main thing are gonna be like this

Have you ever cheated on your serious ex-girlfriend?

I’ll ask you first

On my first girlfriend

So you kinda like cheated on the girlfriend?

Yeah

What did you do? You went for another girl?

So we haven’t f***ed but kissing and cuddle

Did your girlfriend at the time find out?

No, she didn’t

Something that you don’t have to know

Why did you cheat?

I think it was like a relationship which was three years long and

A lot of stree going on at the end so it wasn’t…

You couldn’t make your relationship happy enough at the time

How about you mate?

My first girlfriend

I was not a good boy then

What? You were hanging out with many other girls?

Yeah just party a lot and like

I loved her but I was not serious at all

The thing is that do you guys regret it?

Or do you see it as a good experience?

I think it’s an experience not to do it again

Just don’t get a relationship when you feel like you want some more partners it’s better way actually

Are you guys gonna say that you are not gonna cheat again when you have a next girlfriend?

No, we are good

What’s happening there mate?

To be honest there will be a situation where you think okay I might do it again

But of course I don’t have any intentions to do that

At least you are honest

I’m hoping that these beautiful German gentlemen are

No gonna cheat when they have a next girlfriend

Thank you very much! Danke schon!

5組目　シドニー出身の2人組の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Sydney Australia

Would you mind my asking what you guys do for your career?

I just started interior design so I just graduated

So I’m doing full-time now

What about you? What do you do?

I do real estate just starting at though

We say don’t judge the book by its cover

Exactly like this

I thought you guys are gonna be like a model or something

Today I’m asking people their thoughts on cheating

First of all, beautiful ladies from Australia do you have a partner now?

No

What are Australia boys doing? What the hell!

Have you ever had a partner in your life?

Yeah like a three years relationship it ended about six month ago

We’ll talk about it if you wouldn’t mind

Have you ever had a partner?

I have

How many?

Just one

It depends on a person but some people say

If you secretly text someone text another girl and that’s cheating

If you go to a coffee date, that’s cheating

What is cheating for you guys? What is no no?

Just giving interests in any other girls

Obviously not friends that’s fine

But if it’s a new girls they haven’t been in contact before

And I would think that’s suspicious but like i’d question it for sure

I like it you have a specific description of cheating

What about you?

Literally the same

Just like interests in another girl just that’s like something you wouldn’t do to royalty

If you had a boy friend at the moment if your boyfriend cheated on you

What are you gonna do? Are you gonna dump him straightaway?

Yeah straightaway

No excuse?

Bit hard because of a lot of attachment but

It wouldn’t be good to stay with someone like that

Last question is gonna be like this

Have you ever cheated on your ex-boyfriend?

No, never! Not even a though

No, absoluytely not

Even a super fit good looking…

No, I’m not interested when you love someone, you don’t look for other people

Tunnel vision

You don’t see anyone else

Beautiful girls inside and outside thank you very much

Enjoy your day

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