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【驚愕】外国人に結婚願望や婚活について聞いてみたら衝撃すぎた

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1組目　インド出身の2人組の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you guys from?

I’m from India

Would you mind my asking how old you guys are now?

Twenty six

Twenty two

Alright these beautiful ladies from India

Today I wanna give you some questions about marriage

First of all, do you guys have a partner now?

Yeah I’m married

I’m also married

In Japan if you wanna find a partner nowadays

There are many events which are called “Konkatsu Party”

Where all the men and ladies gather together drink together and

Eat together

And get to know each other

Do you have something like that in India?

In India our parents choose our partner not us

Mostly I think seventy percent people have an arranged marriage

According to the choice of their parents

So your parents prepare someone and you get married

If you wouldn’t mind

Was it like that for you guys too?

Yeah

So when you went back to India And they were like

“I want you to meet someone” is it like that?

Yeah

This is interesting Very different culture yeah

My marriage is from my husband side

Because used to love me from two thousand sixteen

Sweet! Very sweet!

We got married in two thousand twenty

Congratulations

Also in Japan we can use matching apps like

Tinder, Bumbler or some like Japanese apps

But also if you are looking for a serious relationship which leads to a marriage

You can use a marriage agency

You put your name in it And then they are gonna find someone suitable to you

Do you have something like that?

Yeah, we have official sites like Shasdi.com for marriage

There are profiles of boys and girls and

They attract and chat on the site

Like a social site to find a perfect match

I’m thirty one

My parents are not really but

When you get like thirty or thirty five or something like that Your parents kind of push

“FInd someone for your future”

Do you have this kind of culture in India?

We have After twenty five girls parents should pish them

After twenty five

So the last question is gonna be like this

What marriage means to you?

It’s the relationship that goes until the death

A good feeling between the partner and sharing

Support also

It’s not really a guarantee or something like that but it’s just a special feeling

If you are married

That’s your value towards marriage

Thank you very much

2組目　ブラジル出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Brazil

Would you mind my asking how old you are?

I’m twenty one

In this video I wanna give you some questions about marriage

Do you have partner by the way?

No

Have you, in your life Have you ever felt that you wanna get married?

Yeah that’s my dream

So you are the person who wants to get married yeah?

You are single and especially in Japan

We can go on matching apps like Tinder, Bumble or

Some like Japanese matching apps

But these are very casual

When you look for someone very serious for the future

We have nowadays party called Konkatsu

Which is basically a marriage hunting party

So many men and ladies go there and drink Eat food together and

They try to get to know each other

Do you have some parties like that in Brazil?

Not at all

How about marriage agency?

No

How do you find a partner then?

Serious partner

You can find on Tinder

You can find from friends You friends introduce you guys and

I don’t know

There is no specific service for like to find someone for a marriage

No

You can find a partner everywhere in Brazil

Maybe this is a very Asian thing

So I’m thirty one years old by the way

When you get like thirty’s thirty five or something like that

Not all the families but some families in Japan

They try to push you to find someone like

“You gotta get married!”

Have you ever been rushed by your parents to find someone

Well, you are still young but

Never

Do you have that kinda culture though?

No

You can get married whenever you want to

Parents don’t really push?

No, not at all

So another question is that in Australia

I don’t know if it’s the same in Brazil or not

I see some couples have kids and have been together for a long time but not married

They stay unmarried

Do you see that kind of people in Brazil as well?

Normal

It’s really normal

Why do they do that?

Maybe they cannot have money to get married

Or they are not sure if they want to be together

And maybe keep going like a long time and

Forget to get married

And maybe sometimes they just get married on government

And not in charch and have a big party

Sometimes it’s a religion thing

But it sounds like having a marriage is like a chain It’s really strong

And some people don’t want that chain maybe

Yeah maybe

Because sometimes the paper is just for

When you want to buy an apartment And it’s easier if you’re married

That’s why they do sometimes

So last question is gonna be like this

Like you said in Brazil you see many people like that

Who are not married even they have kids

But you said you wanna get married and it’s your dream

What marriage means to you? Why do you want to get married?

Because I want to find someone for love

Just to share my life with someone

So you want a secure and official relationship

Thank you very much Obligado Arigato

3組目　韓国出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you guys from?

We are from Korea

Would you mind my asking how old you guys are?

Yeah sure so

I’m twenty one years old

I’m twenty

I wanna give you some questions about marriage

I wanna know the value you have towards marriage

First of all, you guys are a couple right?

Yeah we are

Are you guys married?

No, we are not

Still very young

Still fresh into the relationship

I can feel the freshness

It’s a very random question but

Have you ever felt you wanna get married in your life?

Yeah I think so yeah definitely

Definitely

In Japan when you look for a partner

Nowadays we see Konkatsu party Which basically means like

Marriage hunting party

Do you have something like that in Korea?

Yeah, we have like many

It’s not for marriage but they are looking for just dating

You have that

There’s a space called “Hunting Pocha”

It’s like a place where you go to meet new people and you drink

And then you can just join other tables and kinda like Talk to the other people and try to like get to know them

And there is something you know like If it kinda sparks I guess then like you date and stuff I guess

Or like get to know them better

I know that some parts of Japan and Korea are similar but

We actually have that kind of stuff too in Japan

Also we have marriage agency in Japan

So you registlate yourself there with your preference as well and

They’re gonna find someone for you They’re gonna talk to you and

You probably go to have a coffee or something and

You see how you feel

Do you have that kind of agency as well? Have you ever heard of it?

Yeah of course in Korea we have

It doesn’t apply to all the families in Japan but

When you get like my age I’m thirty one by the way and if you are single

Maybe your parents kind of start pushing you like

“Where is your girlfriend?”

“Why don’t you get married?” And stuff like that

How about in Korea? Do you have this kind of culture that your parents push?

Yeah we have

I mean I think it just to do with the Asian culture

I think they are still a bit more strict on marriage

So I think they kinda push people to get married

And kinda push people to

Meet people and like date

Last question is gonna be like this

In Australia I see some couples have kids and

They’ve been together for a long time But they are not married for some reasons

But in Asian countries we get married

And also you said you want to get married one day

What marriage means to you?

Because you don’t have to get married to the person

But you said you want to marry

What marriage means to you?

I’ll definitely get married because

I wanna have my own family and

I wanna have my elder years with my husband and my kids and

I wanna see my kids growing up and

I think we’ll be really happy

So it sounds like marriage means kind of like a bond Between you and the person

Like a strong bond

You can stay De facto like as a partner

But if you are married it’s like a bit stronger

Yeah like forever

How about you?

So I think the same with her

I don’t wanna grow old by myself

It’s kinda intimidating for me

But I think it’s

Instead of parents pushing you to get married

I think it should be more natural

You meet someone and then

You get to know them if you wanna marry and then you marry

But I think for Australia people or like for a lot of like Europeans

They don’t get married because

I think it’s a lot of pressure and it’s a lot of weight if you get married

And rather just stay a couple and not deal with like

Let’s say like the worst case scenario They do get a divorce

So I don’t think they wanna go through all that

So they just stay as a couple

That’s why they kinda stay single

So but I think it’s really important to be really comfortable with the other person

And be just friends

Coz if you rely too much on like love and

Kinda too much on like lovely dovey thing

It fades away over time right?

So I think it’s quite important to like each other as friends too

Be best friends

I always have the value

Even I’m with my partner for a long time We should be best friends forever

BBF mate

Thank you very much

You Boyfriend is very wise and smart

You are with a right person

I’m hoping for the bright future for you guys

4組目　オーストラリア、レバノン出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Australia

And you wife?

Yes

She doesn’t speak English right

No, she’s from Lebanon

Nice to meet you

So I’m gonna ask you questions today

Would you mind my asking how old you are?

I’m twenty five

And you are already married

Yeah

That’s quite early in Japan nowadays

In this video I wanna ask you some questions about marriage

And your value towards marriage

How did you meet your wife?

I go to Lebanon a lot

So I’ve known her since we were children

And our families are very We are neighbors for the last forty years so I think

So we’ve had a very close connection between each others families

Maybe in your country family relationship is a quite big thing is it?

So we are not actually related but

Our families are very close

So like I see her families like

Her parents as my uncle aunty anyway

I’ve know them for very long time so they feel like family

In Japan whe you look for a partner like I said

You can go on matching apps and stuff like that but

This is very casual

Nowadays we see parties callled Konkatsu

It’s pretty much like marriage hunting party

Where men and girls come together and drink together Lots of people together

And you get to know each other

Do you have something like that in your country in Australia and Lebanon?

So if you wanna be family members in Lebanon

They usually go visit friends and sometimes you’d be over their house and

You’d see the girls there

So you see a bit of that sometimes but

To me I don’t know everyone’s different

Like me I personally like to choose my own girl just naturally

That’s how me and her kinda went like

We’ve known each other since we were five so twenty years

You get what I mean? Like You’ve known each other for a long time but it wasn’t

It wasn’t until now that we got older that we chose to talk to one another

That’s even better though

When you get finally together Your bond is really strong between you and your wife

In Japan I’m thirty one years old by the way When you get thirty years old or something like that

Not all the families but some families push you to get married

“What are you doing?” “FInd your wife” “Find your husband”

“Get married”

Do you have that kind of culture?

With Lebanese Muslim culture I feel like

I feel like everyone got that time clicking like

You’re getting a bit old

Hurry up and find someone We need to get pushed yeah

Why do they want you to get married?

What’s marriage to you?

You are Australian so you know

There are some couple had kids Been together for a long time but they are not married

You can stay like that but you are married

What marriage means to you and your family?

That’s a good question That’s a very hard question

Why do you need to get married?

Coz you gotta make something official

You can’t just say we like each other but Don’t make official

When you go get a job To make it secure you go sign a contract right?

You just make something official

Something that it feels real you get what I mean?

So in your culture you can’t just leave it vague?

You have to get it official

For muslims you have to make something official

So you have to get a shaykh which is kind of like

A priest and he actually has to sign you guys off

And make you guys married

You can’t just keep it casual

It’s good to know a different culture It’s very interesting

Thank you very much

Please don’t ask me the question

Because I don’t have the answer

Thank you very much

5組目　フランクフルト出身の2人組の男性に聞いてみた！<

Where are you from?

From Germany

Frankfurt

I’m nineteen

I’m nineteen too

Guys you guys are still young but in this video I wanna ask you some questions about marriage

Do you have a partner?

Not anymore

A little bit sad

Do you have a partner?

I had one yes

That’s okay Shit happens sometimes in life but anyway

Dosen’t have to be with that person but

Have you ever felt in your life You wanna get married one day?

From a religious kind of point of view I’m not into it

So I’m not religious personally

So that’s not one thing I want to be married Because of my religion but

I think it’s a nice thought To have someone connected to you

Then you have a team in your life And then not alone anymore

So it sounds like a religion could be

A big reason for people to get married or not

Yeah for sure

How about you?

When I meet a person or when I’m together with a person

I don’t directly think about marriage

I think that time will show

If the relationship is good for marriage or not

If it fits You can marry

If it doesn’t you don’t have to marry so

Last questions is gonna be like this In Asia when you get like thirty thirty five or something like that

Your parents push

“Start looking for someone and get married”

Because marriage is like essential

What do you think in Germany?

Do you get the pressure?

No, my parents did never do that

They’d be happy if I get a family and kids

But they never said anything like that

They say what makes you happy you should do in your life

It’s not like you have to get married or something like that

If you want to, your parents are happy for you to do

As my friend said Maybe other families are more religious and

They say you have to live with this one person for the rest of your life and

But for me it’s also so that my parents never told me that I have to marry

I think they’d be very nice grand parents but

I don’t know if I’m gonna have children but

It’s really good to know different cultures and perspectives

Thank you very much for your help

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