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【お盛ん】外国人に聞いた『一回目のデートでやりますか？』｜友達とするのが普通な世界!

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1組目　ブエノスアイレス出身の女性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Argentina, Buenos Aires

Buenos Aires is the capital city of Argentina

Exactly

Okay, today is Saturday, right?

What’s your plan for today?

Well, I’m going to go surfing

You surf?

Yeah, I surf

Oh, really? That’s cool

Yeah I know

Do people surf in Argentina as well?

Yes, we have just one spot

It’s not pretty common

But yeah, we do surf there

Would you mind my asking how old you are now?

I’m 29

29? You look very young

Thank you Oh, I like you now

Thank you

Today in this video I will ask you some questions

About the first date

Do you have a partner, by the way?

No

Unfortunately no

It’s okay You look beautiful

I’m pretty sure that you have many opportunities you know

I like you even more now

Oh thank you

Shall we go to a date or something?

Maybe this is our first date

Oh maybe

Okay so when was the last time you went to a date with someone?

Yesterday

How did you get to know the person?

Okay so I have an app It’s called Tinder

Tinder, I know Tinder

So you matched with the person

And how many days have you text until you went to the first date which is yesterday?

With this guys, We texted for two weeks

Two weeks? Quite long huh?

Yeah, it’s a lot

But we wanted to see each other sooner

But we couldn’t because of work

All right

Yeah, but usually it’s like a week maybe

Yeah, just like a week

You keep texting with the person and if you feel the vibe

Let’s meet up or something like that

I think from all the experiences you had

You must have some like images of the ideal first date for you, right?

Let’s say you got to know someone else

From Tinder

You guys had a bit of chat on the app

And decided to go on the first date

Where do you want to go

And what do you want to do on the date?

Well usually the basic thing is to go for drinks

Drinks? Yeah

Yeah

Because if you have a little bit of alcohol

Like chill and relax

So it’s easier to start a conversation with someone you don’t know

So yeah, I usually go for drinks

And what I love to do when I go out with someone

If you have a good chat

To have things in common to laugh about life

Laugh about things, have fun, you know?

Yeah definitely

Like nothing too complicated

Just relax, chill

Have a good chat That’s it

I’m hoping that the person who you met yesterday

is not watching this video

But what did you do yesterday?

Well, we went to a bar

We had a few beers

We talk a lot about surfing

Because he likes surfing

Yeah we have a lot of things in common

Is he an Aussie?

Yes He’s Aussie

And we were just talking

And like 3 hours later, I went home alone

Oh yeah Are you sure?

Yeah

This date

That was just a good chat That’s it

But yeah, I mean, if you feel the vibe, you can go have sox with someone

I’m going to ask you about it

So the last question is going to be like this

From the experiences I have of interviewing people in the world

I think doing it on the first date

For the majority of people is no, no in Japan

That’s how I think

Whereas in your country in like a European countries

I think it’s pretty normal

Of course

What do you think about this? Like do many people do that in your country?

Yeah, we all do it

Oh, you all do?

Sometimes the main reason of the date is just sox

You want to do it and you got a date And you just…

And you’re open about it

You just say to the guy

Hey do you want to go to somewhere else?

Do you want to have sox?

So we’re straight forward

Well that’s good

I mean, and then if you like the sox, you like the guy

Then you can think about something else

You know like a partner or something

But at the beginning, it’s just sox

Beginning is just the sox and stuff from that

And you actually start liking the person

Then maybe you get into a serious relationship

That’s how it works for me

And for most of my friends in Argentina

You always start a relationship with sox

Like a sox partner and then

If things go well, then you can be like

You know love relationship

But we start basically having sox

Okay, so you have done it right?

Of course

And don’t have to be shy about it

Oh no

Sox is the most normal thing in the world

I think we all should do it always with protection of course and yeah just enjoy

Just be honest to yourself Just enjoy it

As long as safe

Of course Always safe

Thank you very much

I think people who was watching this video

They’re like, okay, I don’t have to be shy about it

Especially when they’re in this country or in somewhere not in Japan

You know no one judges you

Exactly No one is going to judge

Thank you very much!

2組目　ブラジル出身の男性に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from Brazil

You’re from Brazil? Okay

And then many Brazilian people in Australia

I think it’s a similar country I mean in weather way

Oh really?

So it’s kind of easy to adapt to this weather

Oh okay Well this is Saturday afternoon

What’s your plan for today?

Well I came here cycling

And then I just saw that there is a national park over there

Yeah it’s a headland

So probably I’m going down just to see

What is going on there, what is the feel

And then after that

I’m going cycle back to my place

In Bondi Junction

That’s quite far from here

Yeah 30 kilometers

A healthy man from Brazil

In this video I’ve been asking the people

About the first date

Do you have a partner now by the way?

I have a partner

Oh You have a partner

For five years

You’re a genuine person

Very nice person

Being with a girlfriend

Girlfriend for five years

How did you get to know the person first?

Well the original story is what we use the net

Like in our relationship, like to match people

Was it Tinder?

No What was the name?

Bumble? Hinge?

I try to remamber

Okay Anyway

You got to know the person through an app

If you remember

How long did it take for you to go on the first date with the person?

Since you match with the person on the app?

That was a different match

You know because I was prepared to take longer than the what I usually did

Was it because you are serious about the person?

Or just took a long time naturally?

Just try to change the system

Because when you use like Tinder it’s so easy to match your other one

Yeah it’s very casual

And then you don’t get much on the person

That’s that’s my opinion

But then for this time

For the first time that I decided to okay

Aslo down steps, and then it worked

Because I got to give a good information

To the people who’s watching my video Especially

There are many people who are willing to come to Australia or Canada or wherever

With a working holiday visas or as a student or something like that

And when they go overseas like you

They want to get a partner in a foreign country

That’s an exciting thing as well that you can get in a foreign country

So you are the person who succeeded

That’s why I need to get a tips form you

What did you do on the first date?

You have to get to know the other person you met

Not only like virtually but you have to

Understand the thoughts of the person if you agree or not

That’s it It’s just a nice conversation

Respect the other

And don’t trespass the boundaries

If I have to recommend something I would say

Just chill and have to good time

If the person and so talk friendly

And try to make interesting conversations

You try to make it like a natural but comfortable conversation

With the person on the first stage

So now You don’t have to talk about that person

I’m talking about your whole experience in your life

According my experience

Of interviewing people overseas

especially like a Western and Latino people

Are more open for getting intimate with the person

Than Japanese people because we are little bit still conservative

For example doing it on the first date doing it on the first day is a bit of a no no

For majority of people, I believe, in Japan

Do you think that many people do it on the first date in Brazil?

100% sure

It’s pretty common

I think I would say like the majority

Majority of people do that

And they tend to go to like a serious relationship from that or like some maybe

Not sure

Not sure It depends

I think it depends of how was the first date

Or the first time to do it you know

So it’s also good because for many people

That is a really important part of the relationship

I think it’s one of the steps that you have to pass

To see if you are going to succeed in the relationship

That’s true You need to know

That compatibility

Okay last question is going to be like this

Have you ever done it on the first date in your life?

Yeah

You had What’s the tip?

Many Japanese people many Japanese guys let’s say come to Australia

Like I said with Working Holiday

They want to go on a date with someone non-Japanese

Sometimes not everyone

But sometimes maybe they might want to

You know take it to another level

What’s the tip?

What’s the procedures?

I don’t know about the in Australia

I know I can with my background in Brazil only and I would say like

It’s the same thing like

I think don’t push too much

You have to make that natural

Because you have to create an atmosphere with the person and again

If you try to make friends instead of try to match with date someone, it’s easier

It doesn’t put a lot of pressure on you

And neither on the other person

Try to be as natural as possible

And also try to be an interesting person

Interesting person

It depends of the other one that you are talking with

But then creating good conversations

It’s easy

Otherwise it puts a lot of pressure

Try to use recipes that doesn’t work for you

You have to create your own path

So you say you should make an effort to make a good conversation

And good conversation leads to good atmosphere

And maybe after that

You might get a chance to step up to a next level

Exactlly

On the night

Yeah Be natural

Be natural! Sounds like a professional

I’m hoping that your girlfriend’s not watching this video

And I definitely No Don’t worry man

I’ll send it to her actually

Thank you very much

3組目　ドイツ、エクアドル出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Germany

From Ecuador

Would you mind my asking how old you are?

21

21 Quite young

Yeah 23

I’m a 31

I’m like an old man

Today’s Saturday, right?

What’s your plan for today?

Not much We maybe going to a barbecue right now

Barbecue being a very Australian

Yeah, barbecue super common here in Australia

Sorry guys This is very sudden

But in this video I want to ask you some questions about the first dates

Do you have a partner by the way?

No

Single? The beautiful girl is a single

Single

What the heck is happening in this world?

Okay guys how do you usually meet a person when you want to go on a date

Or when you want to get to know someone new?

I would say over friends

Friend’s friends

Same I actually don’t like dating apps

Why? I love dating apps

Yeah they’re fun

I prefer if I’m going to have a relationship

You don’t like swapping?

No no it’s kind of boring

If I’m going to have a relationship, like something more

I don’t know

Casual something that just happened like this

Naturally

I’m pretty sure that even you don’t have a partner

You must have first date experience in your life

You been on a date many times in your life

What is your ideal first date?

What do you want to do on the first date?

Where do you want to go on the first date?

Maybe something where you can get to know the person a bit better

Like some activity?

I don’t know

Okay maybe

Like a walking on a coast or something?

Rather than going to a cafe or bars

I mean depends That’s also sounds good Just not something boring

It’s just something not boring

If you remember when did you have the date last time?

My last date I mean we went out for dinner actually

And then just hang out

Like together with other friends as well

Not only one-one

There were other people

How about you? When was the last date?

Few months ago

What’s your ideal first date?

Personally I like to do

Some kind of crazy stuff like adrenaline stuff

I would love to go to an amusement park

What’s up?

With roller coaster or maybe a go karting

Like theme park?

Yeah

That would be so fun

So they get to know me

Also the crazy part of me

Not just like the serious one you know?

You have something in there yet

Something special from Ecuador

Okay last question is going to be like this

From all my experience of interviewing people in the world I believe that

Western people and the Latino people

Especially are more open minded about getting intimate with a person

Whereas in Japan it’s a bit more conservative you know

So for example doing it on the first date is

Kind of like a no no

For some people it’s okay But for the majority of people, it’s like still no no

What do you think in your country doing it on the first date?

Do many people do that?

I would say it’s not every time

And like if it happens

It’s just I don’t know

It’s nothing bad?

No no it’s nothing bad I wouldn’t say no

What about Ecuador?

I think quite common

Quite common

But personally I think you have to go with the flow

If you feel like doing it

And if are sure maybe go for it

Have you ever done it on the first date?

No

Many times

How about you?

Yeah I’ve done it yes

So last question

When you do it

Is it because you are not really thinking to get the serious relationship with the person

So you don’t care or because

You really like the person you do it

Which is more likely to be?

Me personally I haven’t done it

Because I think maybe it ruins a bit of…

It ruins a bit of…

I know what you mean Ruins a bit of I know what you mean

Many Japanese people who are willing to come to Australia

With a working holiday visa or as a student

They’re watching this video

They need a tip What’s the tip?

How do you get the person to the bed on the same night?

I don’t know guys just be open

And if some someone starts to talk to you

And if you feel you like them

Probably just be open and talk to them

Maybe have some drinks and things that are going to happen

Drinks can be a magic

Thank you very much

4組目　シドニー出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Sydney Australia

Sydney Australia Wollongong

Are you guys a couple?

Yeah

This is a Saturday afternoon

What are you up to today?

Just on a little walkabout mainly

And fetch food and ice cream

And a getting interviewed by a Japanese YouTuber now

I was about to ask you guys questions about the first date

Because I’m not sure if you know

But Japanese is a little bit conservative country

But I found that Australia people are very open

In a Western country and the Latino people also

So I want to ask you some questions about it

How long have you guys been together, by the way?

Eight months now

How did you get to know each other first?

We met through online So like an app called Bumble

Yeah 2022 now

Okay So you texted to him first

The Bumble is the one that you can match

But the only girls can do the first step

Congratulations mate

What do you like about him?

I remember seeing it vividly

He had the brown Eminem shirt

And I was swiping and that caught my eye

And then so I messaged him and “why not?”

I’ll just message him

I said “I like your Eminem shirt”

And what I said?

You said, it would be awesome I think

Yeah I like

Basically where am I going to get it?

Okay “Where am I going to get it?” Get the shirt

Oh I’m happy that

You didn’t say “Oh I saw his picture”

Because you did something like this

“Oh I like his abs”

I’m happy that you didn’t say

Because I was like “She’s not that kind of person”

Anyway what did you guys do on the first date?

Well what was your strategy mate?

Oh man it’s a big strategy but not really

We just went to Newtown

So we both like fashion and clothes

And I feel like it’s a perfect place to explore together

Daytime

Yeah daytime

Because we never really been either of us

So we just went out through the day explored and are a lot of food

Ice cream like today

And then we just hit it off like that

Newtown is like Harujuku of Australia

This is going to be the last and the main question of this interview

And suddenly get to a bit of an extreme

Okay I hope you wouldn’t mind

Japan is a conservative country, whereas Australia

I think people are more open minded

About getting intimate with a person

You know, some people do it on the first date

Do you think many people do that kind of thing on the first date in this country?

Yeah I’m going to be honest too Yeah

Because I don’t know it’s a bit different

Like you said it’s more open here

It’s more acceptable

It’s not seen as like wrong as much

Well you know here and there

Here and there

What do you think from a girl’s perspective?

Also like it depends what your intentions are

You know some people have different intentions

Like for us like we generally just wanted to like find someone who like we love

Genuine

Yeah very genuine relationship

But some people they just want like a one night thing

Yeah Depends on why you are looking for

It depends on why you want

Because I get lots of comments sometimes that people say

if you do that kind of thing before you start dating with the person

Like you’re not going to be in a serious relationship with someone

But I totally think that it depends on the person

But ultimately I want ask you guys

You guys a couple did you do it on the first date?

No no

Are you guys not that kind of person

Took a time Thank you guys

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