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【衝撃】元恋人と連絡を取り続けるのは浮気？世界の恋愛観に驚愕！

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1組目　シドニー、ゴールドコースト出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Thank you very much for your help ladies

Where are you ftom?

I’m from here Sydney Bondi

I’m from Sydney but I’m originally from the Gold Coast

Or, really? Even better place would you say?

I like it better. I think it’s more relaxed

I just needed to ask to talk to you guys coz you guys looking pretty stunning

You guys are stunning in this road

I know we made it our own path, because us

Alright, what’s your plan for today?

We gonna go have a swim and just get some sand tanned and enjoy the day

In this video I’m asking non Japanese people here on Bondi Beach about their

Experience of relationship

I need to ask you how many partners have you ever had so far?

One

That’s good, and?

Three maybe four

What was the longest a relationship for you?

This one I have been for three years

A year and a half

Was it your falt to break up with the person or you think the other way?

No, he break up eith me

And I think you said what would relationships make you learn

And I think it’s just depended on situations

Like different times of your life and what happens

So I was still freshly in high school

Ok quite a long time ago then?

Yeah long time ago, dating was terrible

Oh, you don’t like dating yeah?

No, I love to date but it’s just hard

It’s lovely to have but it’s also painful

What do you think you can learn from having a relationship?

What have you learnt in your life?

It depends on the way that your relationship was but

You can learn how to love yourself better

You grow as a person

You can learn how to problem solve better

You can learn how to correct your mistakes in the future

You grow as a person we learn no matter what we’re doing

Who we’re with even if we hate old people in our lives

We always have taken something from them

By loving someone you can learn how to love yourself as well

Absolutely

Okay the last question is gonna be like this

The other day, I was talking to my mate and we’re like

Could you become a friend with your ex and stuff like that

And I was like yes or no it depends on the person but

Personally as an Australian lady’s perspective

Can you become a friend with your ex?

Me and my friend argue about this all the time

No you can’t be friends with your ex

She says oh we can still be friends

We can have a good relationship we loved each other one time I wanna have good respect for them

me, no bye good bye Sayonara

Oh Sayonara! Why do you think so?

Because I don’t think you need to keep the person in your life

I think that once you’ve been with somebody and you’ve been loved with somebody

You can’t have them as a friend it’s just too difficult

And it’s gonna cause problems in your future relationship and your friendships as well

So the stories end, go for the new film

What do you think?

Well, I think that it’s fine until you have another partner

Okay if you have a new partner it’s kind of like a respect to give the partner

To quit the friendship or relationship whatever with the person

It depends on what kind of friendship that you have

Is it actually a friendship you still have the feeling still in it

Coz if so then you can’t be friends with them

It depends what you’re mentally with

Learning many things from this beautiful ladies

Thank you very much

2組目　イタリア出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

Italy

Where are you from?

Italy as well

What’s your plan for today then?

Go to the beach enjoy this sun

Looking for girls?

Of course

Always

In this video I have some questions that I wanna ask to non Japanese people here on Bondi Beach

And they’re gonna be about your experience of a relationship

So my first question is gonna be like this

How many partners have you had so far in your life?

Real that I was really love two

So unreal?

I can’t say

Cannot remember

Serious relationship?

Probably just one for the most important

And then three four but just one

Just really important one

So you separate yeat?

Yeah now

Let me ask you was it your fault to break up with the person or the other one?

Neither, no one it was CO**D fault

Coz I came back from Australia and the has been CO**D

So we broke up coz I couldn’t come back in Australia for a while

Oh she was here that’s so sad

What about you last relationship?

My last relationship was the fault because I came here

So it was really long and was my fault

But I wanna tell her like thank you

Coz I’m here in Australia now and I really love this country

That’s good so you’re happy now year?

Yeah i’m sp happy now

I think I believe that we can learn so many things from having a relationship with people

You know how to respect the other one how to solve the problem and all that

What do you think you learnt from your relationship in your life?

I had a really really great time with her

Coz I have nothing to regret

In another relationship I would just save more time for myself

I mean that’s good to be in a relationship

And give a lot of time to your partner is really good

But not giving away all the time just like

I like fifty-fifty you can’t give all yourself

You have to take care about even yourself

First yourself be able to be happy alone and then even another person

That’s so true though coz I think

My previous relationship and second previous relationship

I was actually like that

I wanted to be nice to my ex-girlfriend at that time

But I spent too much time and I was like get stress out

And that influenced my relationships

That’s important take your time for yourself as well not all the time for your partner

What did you learn mate?

I learned that I was thinking too much by myself

And I was unthinking about her

Now one year later I would like to say

So sorry to her because I was thinking a lot to myself

But thanks as well because I can came here

You guys have a nice stories aye?

But that’s true because we learned when it’s too late sometimes

I learned everything when it was too late

So the last question is gonna be like this

You had a lovely ex-girlfriend you had a so many thoughts around your head

But my main question is can you become a friend with your ex-partners?

he doesn’t want

Why doesn’t she want?

She blocked me everywhere

Blocked me everywhere whatsapp, instagram everywhere

What about you?

Definitely no I mean one thing is falling love again

But no friend I mean coz probably if I see her again mu heart start to melt

So I’m not able to be friend with her

I completely understand

Because if you can be a friend that’s good but if you

Know that the feeling is gonna change to a romantic feeling

I hope you find another love that you can focus on

Thank you very much for your help

3組目　シドニー出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

We get the big men right here where are you from?

I’m from Sydney Australia

Yes sir Sydney Australia

In this vide this is very random but

I’m interviewing non-Japanese people about your experience of a relationship

So first question is gonna be like this

Legends, how many partners have you ever had in your life?

Two

I say around four

What’s your longest relationship?

Four years right now

Right now! Keep going!

What do you think have learnt from all the relationship you’ve had in your life?

What did you learn?

Well life is crazy

Because I’ve been through a mad roller coaster at this stage but umm

But I think with the partner that I have now have been together for four years

The most beautiful and amazing thing I’ve ever felt been through

I’ve opened up sp much different things

I learnt so much more

And I can’t think of her enough baby I love you so much

So the last question is gonna be like this

You know some people say I can’t be with my friend with my ex

Some people say well my ex is best friend

Whatever they say but personally

Can you become a friend with your ex?

No

No thank you why do you think so?

Because it’s a own personal connection that you had with other person

And it’s the never connection if you have with the new person

So when you’re still friends with the old one

And you get a new one

Then just crushes and it doesn’t work

That’s gonna ruin the new relationship

Think of it like this bro

It’s pretty much like a car, alright, sitting in the car

You got this beer in your hand

You got one arm in this steering wheel

Second one and then you see the mirror up there

Looking back, rip that card off, get rid of that

Never look back but always go forwards

The more positive bro, the things be

So that’s my point of view on it anyway

It sounds like definitely better not to stay with your exes

Just leave the person

If there here was a football, boom!

Alright, thank you very much for the smiles enjoy your day!

4組目　フランス出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

I’m from France

I’m from France too

In this video I’m interviewing non-Japanese people about their experience of relationship

First of all, how many partners have you ever had in your life?

Twelve

That’s a lot yeah?

How old are you?

Twenty four

Twenty four? Twelve girl friend?

That’s a lot mate!

What do you think? How many?

More than less bout twenty

Tinder is working very well

So you have many girlfriends and

What was the longest relationship? How many years?

Five years

That’s quite a long

Three years for me

Not too bad

You know relationship could be very lovely but sometimes very hard, painful

But we can learn so many things from having someone

What did you learn from having a relationship?

Don’t cheating

That was very very big mistake

It hurts the person and also it hurts yourself too it’s painful

What do you think?

What did I learn, I’ve learn for the next one that a

I’ll be really careful and I’ll be like more selective too

You need to think and take your time to choose your partner

Exactly not to rush the relationship

No rush don’t rush guys

No after two days three days and start having a relationship

Take your time Take your time

Ok my last question is gonna be like this

Some people say ex-boy/ girl friend is my best friend

I still talk to them

No

Some people say no thank you cannot

Because I like my ex-girlfriend as a person

She is a good person

i want to be friend again

Because I want a sexal relationship

You will feel like that so you can’t be just friends yeah

What do you think? Can you?

The last one I’m still friend with her

We talk together sometimes

The previous the Spanish one was French

And you can’t be friend with a French girlfriend

It’s impossible

French girlfriend can be a little bit trouble yeah?

It’s too tricky to be with

They want to leave you just to show “I was right!”

It was your fault not mine

Ok I don’t wanna generalize but

Guys if you go to study in France or

You wanna have a French girlfriend

Maybe get ready yeah? It can be a trouble

Thank you very much yeah! Please enjoy your day!

5組目　バルセロナ出身の2人組に聞いてみた！

Where are you from?

We are from Barcelona

Barcelona

In this video, I’m interviewing non-Japanese people

Here on Bondi Beach about their experience of relationship

So my first question is gonna be

You guys are beautiful you must have a lot of experiences of relationship

But how many relationship have you had in your life?

I had two

Two both

Ok forgive me to ask this

Think about the last relationship

Was it your four fault to finish or was it your partner’s fault you think?

I think it was my partner’s fault

Can I ask what happened?

I traveled from around all South America

And I went there like for four months, so after that

The relation was like going down and we broke up

Long distance relationship can be very difficult

What about you? What do you think?

I think it was both parts’

How long have you stayed with the person?

Three years and a half

Quite a long time

What’s your longest relationship?

Six years

That’s long

Almost married

That must have been very tough to finish the relationship

It’s very sad yeah?

But even we had a hard time

We can say we can learn so many things from a relationship

What do you think you have learnt in your life ny having a relationship with someone?

I think that the important thing is to be respectful to have a lot of communication

So you learned how to respect people how to communicate

And saying the things that you think always the feelings that you’re feeling everytime

And I learned what I don’t want

Oh you learned what you don’t want by having a relationship

That’s important though

What do you think?

I’m agree with my friend

It’s important to have a very good communication

And if you don’t like something, say it

Hey this not

Because if not, it’s gonna bogger and bigger and bigger

And it boom!

It’s too late explosion that’ true

Having a relationship can teach you what you don’t like actually

That is really important

So you can use the experience with another relationships

Last question is gonna be like this

You know some people say my ex-girl/boyfriend is my best friend whatever

But some people say “No, absolutely no”

I cannot be friend with my ex

What do you think ladies? Can you become a friend with your ex?

I think that you can be friends but maybe not best friends

What do you think? Can you become a friend with your ex?

My two exes are my best friends

You talk to them yeah?

But there is no romantic feeling between?

No no just friends

Let me become a little bit a tricky person to ask you this question

What if you gotta boyfriend now and your boyfriend say

I don’t like you to talk to your exes

Please break off the friendship or relationship

I won’t stay with him

So you want the person to understand how you feel

And what’s the value to you

For me my friends are my the most important thing

My boyfriend needs to understand that my friends are my life

If you don’t like my ex, so sorry bye bye!

I love that

Thank you very much for your opinion ladies

Muchas gracias

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